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Yup, may as well brought the coworker home and offered the wife to join as they were headed toward the bedroom.
Even in Penthouse Forum, when the guy brings a hot chick home for a surprise threeway with his wife, it's usually preceded with "We had been talking about it for a while..."
Joke or not, let this be a lesson on how not to handle introducing another person to the mix like a n00b.
It wasn't very chivalrous of you to not give her first pick of mfm or mff, either with someone from work or a friend of hers she perhaps would of felt comfortable with.
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And she could have all of that as well once I'm more comfortable taking care of the baby on my own.
You had the baby a year ago you should be comfortable.
You sound like one selfish lover and a borderline prick. I bet you've already slept with your coworker or at least thought about it. I mean it makes no sense to bypass a conversation like this with your partner and go right to planning the sleeping with another woman. In fact a threesome with 1 man and 2 women is almost always about the man, not the woman (unless she's bisexual).
You don't want to spice things up for the relationship, you want to spice things up for you!
Serves you right that she's mad at you, not only have you made it clear that you've already set sights on another woman--undressed her and all--but she's the one who's given birth to YOUR child, she's the one taking care of the child while (you grow more comfortable ), and all you can think about is how can you please yourself!?
A happy woman is a happy man. I hope she continues to hold out on you until you figure out how to be a partner.
You have not done much wrong. In a relationship we _should_ be able to discuss alternatives and scenarios that interest us. Then the other person can consider it - and either accept it or refuse. The reaction she gave to you merely suggesting it is pretty bad.
However what is questionable is that you approached a third person _before_ approaching your partner on the subject.
As for what to do? Acknowledge what you did wrong - apologize for it - but suggest that a part of any healthy relationship is to be able to discuss these things.
This is one of the most bizarre posts I've read on here...
>Asking your gf for a threesome when you have a 1 year old
>approaching one of your co-workers of all people about it
>thinking all of this is ok
Ok I hate to break it to you, but a huge part of her desire for sex comes for you......meaning that her lack of desire comes from you too....Once you come to terms with the real reason why her interest in sex has diminished, the sooner you can figure out how to change that. It's as clear as day....just look real close in the mirror...
^This^
The OP is probably the who is not attracted to his partner anymore.
You have not done much wrong. In a relationship we _should_ be able to discuss alternatives and scenarios that interest us. Then the other person can consider it - and either accept it or refuse. The reaction she gave to you merely suggesting it is pretty bad.
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"Merely suggesting"? HE PROPOSITIONED HIS COWORKER! There's nothing "mere" about it.
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), and all you can think about is how can you please yourself!? 