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My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we have a 1 year old son. Things are not so good when it comes to sex since the baby was born, which is natural. She's more worried, more tired and I understand all of that.
So to spice things up, I approached a female colleague at work regarding a threesome. I know she's very frisky and would go along with it. She immediately said that she was up for it.
So I thought we could leave our son with the grandparents for the weekend so we could have fun all the 3 of us.
When I told my partner about it, she went mad. She said she couldn't believe I was suggesting such a thing, that I have no respect for her and that it's a disgusting idea. Then I told her that if she preferred we could have an escort instead of a woman I know if she feels more comfortable. She said she just couldn't recognise me and that went away.
We haven't spoken in these past few days. I've tried to speak with her again but she avoids me.
I mean, I thought it was a good idea to improve things in bed. I couldn't imagine she would be so prudish. I've tried this with a previous girlfriend and it didn't change a thing.
What should I do?
Has your GF ever mentioned she would be interested in a 3some?? IF not, you've just completely screwed yourself. GL
Lastly from a relationship perspective you shouldn't have a threesome to spice things up or fix things, it has to be something both parties are into and find hot from teh beginning, it sounds like your sex life is already bad so your wife knows this isn't about a hot thing you two can do together, your just finding an excuse and an acceptable way to bang your coworker.
I'm still trying to figure out the thought process. How do you get from "my wife doesn't have time or energy for sex, due to 24/7 baby care all year" to "she needs a threesome"?
My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we have a 1 year old son. Things are not so good when it comes to sex since the baby was born, which is natural. She's more worried, more tired and I understand all of that.
So to spice things up, I approached a female colleague at work regarding a threesome. I know she's very frisky and would go along with it. She immediately said that she was up for it.
So I thought we could leave our son with the grandparents for the weekend so we could have fun all the 3 of us.
When I told my partner about it, she went mad. She said she couldn't believe I was suggesting such a thing, that I have no respect for her and that it's a disgusting idea. Then I told her that if she preferred we could have an escort instead of a woman I know if she feels more comfortable. She said she just couldn't recognise me and that went away.
We haven't spoken in these past few days. I've tried to speak with her again but she avoids me.
I mean, I thought it was a good idea to improve things in bed. I couldn't imagine she would be so prudish. I've tried this with a previous girlfriend and it didn't change a thing.
What should I do?
Why didn't you suggest another guy for the threesome?
He did, but only after she reacted poorly to the first suggestion.
hahaha! I really don't think this thread is for real, but if it is then it sounds like the OP doesn't know his partner too well. I mean after all this time you had no idea that she wasn't into threesomes? If you didn't then don't you think it would have been wise to find out first before doing all this?
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