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Old 01-31-2022, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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A fixation on what they’ve missed out on, but there’s no “catching up” if a guy can’t figure out how to behave acceptably enough so that someone somewhere …. Oh nevermind! There’s no explaining anything about it!
Hey there!

It's crazy how fast some of the threads derail and turn into a dark hole of "it is everyone else's fault but MINE."
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Old 01-31-2022, 09:45 PM
 
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Hey there!

It's crazy how fast some of the threads derail and turn into a dark hole of "it is everyone else's fault but MINE."
Hiya!

And it’s obvious all along, everyone’s hinting at “it’s you, it’s really you, like reading your responses about women… I already know this would not be fun.” But still, they don’t/won’t understand.
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Old 02-01-2022, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Hiya!

And it’s obvious all along, everyone’s hinting at “it’s you, it’s really you, like reading your responses about women… I already know this would not be fun.” But still, they don’t/won’t understand.
Or all the ones completely fixated on how it must be their looks, but absolutely refusing to address their glaring personality issues.
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Old 02-01-2022, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Hiya!

And it’s obvious all along, everyone’s hinting at “it’s you, it’s really you, like reading your responses about women… I already know this would not be fun.” But still, they don’t/won’t understand.
I also wonder too, like, if everyone agreed that yes, this guy has the worst time with dating ever, and sure, all women are shallow awful people, how does that help? The bottom line is that well-adjusted women don't want to date or sleep with men who inherently don't like women as people. I get that these dudes are frustrated and want to vent, but it's done in a way that's not going to earn much sympathy.

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Old 02-01-2022, 01:28 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Or all the ones completely fixated on how it must be their looks, but absolutely refusing to address their glaring personality issues.
My favorite is when they are convinced that their perceived physical imperfection is all that is in the way of them bagging the babes, like their wrists are to thin, or their philtrum is too long, the angle of their eye slant needs to be surgically adjusted ("hunter eyes" are apparently guaranteed to have women tearing off their panties).

Yep, sure tiger. It's your skinny wrists.
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Old 02-01-2022, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Canada
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My favorite is when they are convinced that their perceived physical imperfection is all that is in the way of them bagging the babes, like their wrists are to thin, or their philtrum is too long, the angle of their eye slant needs to be surgically adjusted ("hunter eyes" are apparently guaranteed to have women tearing off their panties).

Yep, sure tiger. It's your skinny wrists.
I must leave my husband, immediately.






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Old 02-01-2022, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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My favorite is when they are convinced that their perceived physical imperfection is all that is in the way of them bagging the babes, like their wrists are to thin, or their philtrum is too long, the angle of their eye slant needs to be surgically adjusted ("hunter eyes" are apparently guaranteed to have women tearing off their panties).
I've been on this forum a while, and there have been struggle bros who've posted their pictures, only to show that they were normal-looking dudes (one guy even looked a bit like Bruno Mars, which he could definitely work with.) On the other hand, there was one guy who honestly had a face like a frog, but he bragged about being a sex tourist in SE Asia, so he made it work. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Old 02-01-2022, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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I've been on this forum a while, and there have been struggle bros who've posted their pictures, only to show that they were normal-looking dudes (one guy even looked a bit like Bruno Mars, which he could definitely work with.) On the other hand, there was one guy who honestly had a face like a frog, but he bragged about being a sex tourist in SE Asia, so he made it work. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Yeah, I just think of the various people I've known who are not just...less than gorgeous, but seriously unfortunate in the looks department... I've known some doozies. But they still had partners. Sometimes partners who were a lot more attractive looking than they were (if perhaps not barely legal supermodels or whatever.)

And they weren't rich, either.

They did what they could with grooming and hygiene, and they had their lives more or less together (again, not rich but doing alright) and most importantly they had good character, wit, intellect or charisma or some combo thereof. They had good brains. It really can tip the balance.
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Old 02-01-2022, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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All of this Incel business is above my pay grade. I was a bit sympathetic for a while, but now…. I just walk in the other direction.
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Old 02-01-2022, 07:14 PM
 
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All of this Incel business is above my pay grade. I was a bit sympathetic for a while, but now…. I just walk in the other direction.
And that’s a good point too! As soon as somebody starts talking about their looks or attractiveness or if they’re a 9 or a 3… whether they’re saying “I’m fairly attractive” or “women don’t find me attractive” it’s already the end. I don’t care what they think women think about them. Not interested. I’m not Women. Let’s talk about something more interesting than your perceived appearance. I guess it’s like money. I don’t care how much you have. Really.
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