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Of course you'd exit stage left, if a guy is just being nice, but not hot, then why talk to him?
I don't have an issue with myself. I'm who I am. I've been clear on that too.
But to be a jerk toward a guy and assume he's interested?
That sucks.
Okay, now you're moving the goalposts of this conversation--who said that there's no reason to talk to a decent guy unless he's hot? Why is preemptively subtly hinting that she's not interested being a jerk? Actually being a jerk is something completely different.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 06-27-2016 at 04:24 PM..
Oh I 100% agree with this. That's another thing the women in this thread refuse to admit.
RE-fuse.
Any conversation, no matter how innocent, is seen as an attempt to get into their pants.
It's mainly narcissism.
You're participating in a bit of selective reading yourself. Here ^^^ you ignore the most important part of that post, which is:
Quote:
Originally Posted by wanderlust76
They are trained this way due to our culture of overly aggressive men and the mass quantity of men that want to date 4 women at a time. They play the numbers game asking just about any woman out.
That doesn't fit your agenda here, though. Also, post #233 is the only one where you've calmly made a point. The rest? Angry, yes, defensive, and closed-minded. The first response was an abberration. The rest were definitely not angry, and MANY were from men!
But to be a jerk toward a guy and assume he's interested?
That sucks.
The irony is rich with this one. You know what sucks? Your attitude toward women.
You'd be assuming what I'm assuming. And yes, please tell me what my name says about me aside from being the tag line from a Pantene commercial?
You are concluding that someone mentioning their boyfriend is an affront to you. A woman is a jerk in your world if she is preemptive when you are 'just being nice'.
You think you are coming off nice, and that women are being witches with a b for not treating you like you're a hot guy (because you're so NICE, right?) - this may be a newsflash to you, but you do not come off as nice. at all.
Try talking 'nice' to a woman who is not at all attractive. On a scale of 1-10, she will be a three or less. Do it. See if she also mentions her SO. Based on your theory, she will also mention her SO in some random non sequitur fashion. Why not run this little experiment and let us know what happens?
Try talking 'nice' to a woman who is not at all attractive. On a scale of 1-10, she will be a three or less. Do it. See if she also mentions her SO. Based on your theory, she will also mention her SO in some random non sequitur fashion. Why not run this little experiment and let us know what happens?
See, I treat everyone the same. I know that's a weird thing to some people, but I believe in an egalitarian spirit based on hard work and social justice. I don't believe in oppressing any human being nor do I believe that a person should be judged purely on superficial nonsense.
I've had many long conversations about art, science, politics, literature and life itself with women who would be considered "plain" or "homely" and NOT ONCE is there some kind of assumption of romantic interest.
See, I treat everyone the same. I know that's a weird thing to some people, but I believe in an egalitarian spirit based on hard work and social justice. I don't believe in oppressing any human being nor do I believe that a person should be judged purely on superficial nonsense.
I've had many long conversations about art, science, politics, literature and life itself with women who would be considered "plain" or "homely" and NOT ONCE is there some kind of assumption of romantic interest.
I guess it depends on what people look like.
Sadly.
So it appears the women who bring up the SO (the shallow "jerks") are the attractive women. You know what to do.
(shhhhhh exit stage left, he's just about to pass out now, poor little thing, arguing day and night. Don't make a sound or it'll just start up all over again)
I've had a few women scream at me for opening doors for them and I was embarrassed because people started staring. I was just trying to be nice but lesson learned. I haven't opened a door for a woman since.
Wow. That has never happened to me, but I believe it. It does happen.
I have held open doors for women. I've gotten a range of reactions from them just walking through to a woman just staring lovingly through me calling me a sweetie. It was like she was going to kiss me on the cheeks or something.
But, the screaming and yelling is really sad. There was no need to feel embarrassed by that. It says more about her than you.
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