My wife's affair??????? (girlfriend, marriage, love, cheated)
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My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted my wife she said its because I'm terrible in bed. I was repeatedly sexually abused when I was 8 years old, and I find sex too hard deal with. The whole thing is too emotional for me, and she knows this. I love her so should I forgive her?
My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted my wife she said its because I'm terrible in bed. I was repeatedly sexually abused when I was 8 years old, and I find sex too hard deal with. The whole thing is too emotional for me, and she knows this. I love her so should I forgive her?
So sorry this is happening. It is A LOT to take in all at once. You do not have to make any decisions at the moment. Take time to process.
However, it is not realistic to expect your wife will just do without sex because it is "too hard for you to deal with".
What was your friend's approach? Why did he show you the pictures? Was he proving it, or was he gloating?
That wasn't your best friend, people use those words too loosely these days. He was wrong for that and so was your wife, and I'm sorry you have to deal with this mess. Kick them both to the curb, I bet they been doing it for a while by now. And find yourself a good sex therapist to help you deal with your issues about sex. You shouldn't want to take those issues into another relationship if you can help it.
Did your wife express a problem with sex to you before the affair?
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