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What you guys need to know, is that men who know whatsup, understand very well that a woman will usually sleep with a guy right away, if all the right conditions are met. Because of this, we dont respond well to women who want to make us wait, because we know very well that they didnt always wait, and becasue they didnt wait for these other guys, its not cool to make us wait.
Oh please
By your "logic," we understand very well that a guy will wait for a woman he really wants, if all the right conditions are met. Because of this we don't respond well to boys who act like they won't wait. We know very well that you HAVE waited, and because of that, it's not cool to rush us.
I posted here about the guy I'm currently going out with.
He's someone I met on Match and we had a back and forth relationship.
This time around, after 3 dates, I asked him to take down Match profile, he freaked out big time and didn't see me for 2 weeks.
After 2 weeks, he came back and we continued going out. And we pretended the conversation never happened.
We only see each other on weekends due to the distance. We've gone on a few weekend get always trips. But still no exclusive talk.
He's still on Match, Active.
I don't feel like I can see other people while he and I are going on dates. But as the same time, not knowing where this is going make me wonder if I'm wasting my time and emotional investment. I can't just "have fun" and not be emotionally attached, I just can't.
He's sick this weekend and we're not seeing each other, I feel I just want to call and talk things out. If the feelings are not mutual what's the point to wait for another "date" only to break up? I'd rather break up over the phone, save some embarrassment.
I'd greatly appreciate your opinion. Thanks everyone
I believe it's common practice if you've gone out on a few dates then you ask if this is going anywhere...if he is interested in dating you exclusively or is he going to be seeing others. Then you make the decision.
If I were you, and I'm not, so, remember that, I wouldn't waste my time. Start seeing others...and be selective, start listening to his words, ask him questions, and if he pulls something like this, I would definitely, start seeing others. This person is playing games, b/c he can.
By your "logic," we understand very well that a guy will wait for a woman he really wants, if all the right conditions are met. Because of this we don't respond well to boys who act like they won't wait. We know very well that you HAVE waited, and because of that, it's not cool to rush us.
See how stupid that sounds?
Just stop.
You wrote it, why are you asking me if it sounds stupid? What Im saying is true, and its true for you as well. You know very well, you will have sex with a guy on first date, if you are turned on by him and all other things align properly. With that knowledge, why would you then make another man wait? Ill let you in on a little secret, the man who knows whatsup but would wait anyway - is not the man you want to begin with. Hope this is helpful.
What you guys need to know, is that men who know whatsup, understand very well that a woman will usually sleep with a guy right away, if all the right conditions are met. Because of this, we dont respond well to women who want to make us wait, because we know very well that they didnt always wait, and becasue they didnt wait for these other guys, its not cool to make us wait.
You wrote it, why are you asking me if it sounds stupid? What Im saying is true, and its true for you as well. You know very well, you will have sex with a guy on first date, if you are turned on by him and all other things align properly. With that knowledge, why would you then make another man wait? Ill let you in on a little secret, the man who knows whatsup but would wait anyway - is not the man you want to begin with. Hope this is helpful.
That's a "secret" because you made it up.
You're full of crap, as usual. I have no clue why you are still allowed to post here.
Yeah, but those women are different from women who enjoy sex and secretly want the guy they enjoy it with to commit to them when he is not ready. It's nice if they respect themselves, but those women don't respect the guy.
Call me old but going out dating 2 to 4 times a week sounds like too much work for me.
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Call me old but going out dating 2 to 4 times a week sounds like too much work for me.
Eh, it's not bad. Two is pretty sustainable, because then you have a couple of other days to go out with friends, and then a couple to just crash. Four or more takes a toll fairly quick, either energy wise, or to the detriment of other social relationships and obligations.
Eh, it's not bad. Two is pretty sustainable, because then you have a couple of other days to go out with friends, and then a couple to just crash. Four or more takes a toll fairly quick, either energy wise, or to the detriment of other social relationships and obligations.
Different strokes for different folks I guess. To me two dates a week on the occasion would be ok, but consistently, nah, not for me, but everyone is different I suppose.
I don't feel like I can see other people while he and I are going on dates.
I'd greatly appreciate your opinion.
Then don't see other people.
If you REQUIRE the same... you're asking it of the wrong guy.
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