Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Why would anyone be "seriously crushing" on someone they don't even know? And, this is what happens in a LOT of cases! Boy sees girl...he's suddenly "seriously crushing" on her...?
I've "crushed" on movie stars, when I was in my teens...
I feel like I do get adult crushes. But I have to talk to people some first. They aren’t deep of course. But it can still be fun.
Nope, not here for it. I’m not wasting time and money on that dynamic, when I’ve been clear I want more than friendship. She can find another fool to buy her dinner because I’m not the one.
This......... She is saying "i will allow you to be seen with me for my looks as long as you pay for everything".
Why would anyone be "seriously crushing" on someone they don't even know? And, this is what happens in a LOT of cases! Boy sees girl...he's suddenly "seriously crushing" on her...?
I've "crushed" on movie stars, when I was in my teens...
I'd imagine some women want to hang out without the burden of expectations so they say "just as friends".... for now. Some bottom gay guys do that too and I've ended up sleeping with them. But it could also be a gentle rejection and that she doesn't even want to be friends lol. Need more context/info
Hmm... I'm wondering if at least some of the people who hear/say "let's be friends" understands that those words are not always meant to be taken literally...?
The "friends" card is often thrown around at the beginning and/or the end. After all, how often have some people met someone, became intimate with them, only to learn things about them that they don't like...for them to break things off with those words, "Can't we JUST be friends?" Like you mentioned Jade, it's hard to 'flip the switch', even after you've been intimate with someone. For some, it's like taking a step down...or backwards.
If I say something, it is meant to be taken literally.
(aside for joking with friends and such)
__________________ ____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
I feel the same way. Doesn't mean that everyone ELSE does...
True.
But should they?
If someone told me they wanted to be friends, if I were looking to date, why would I not take them at their word and move along? I'm not inclined to sit around and guess if they meant something other than they said. What kinda person does that? For me, one I wouldn't want to be around, let alone date.
I am not interested in adults who are incapable of expressing themselves, or, playing games.
__________________ ____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I'm wondering if at least some of the people who hear/say "let's be friends" understands that those words are not always meant to be taken literally...? 
