Do girls really like guys who have experience? (woman, love, younger)

[mom2justynsarah]

Personally, I like a man with a lot experience. My hubby definetly sewed his oats. But who am I to complain? He hits the sweet spot every single time There is nothing worse than a man huffing and pussing, fumbling around and not knowing what to do. If I feel like reading a magazine, filing my nails, watching tv or falling asleep, we have a problem!! LOL!

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

If I feel like reading a magazine, filing my nails, watching tv or falling asleep, we have a problem!! LOL!

You forgot making up grocery lists in your head...

[mom2justynsarah]

Naw, haven't done that. But I have definetly watched tv, flipped through a magazine, and fallen asleep ... LOL!!

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

You forgot making up grocery lists in your head...

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

Naw, haven't done that. But I have definetly watched tv, flipped through a magazine, and fallen asleep ... LOL!!

You're kiddin', right...?!

[wclac]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

Personally, I like a man with a lot experience. My hubby definetly sewed his oats. But who am I to complain? He hits the sweet spot every single time There is nothing worse than a man huffing and pussing, fumbling around and not knowing what to do. If I feel like reading a magazine, filing my nails, watching tv or falling asleep, we have a problem!! LOL!

What about a man who had experience with a stripper. No sex or nothing, how he handles a stripper. That could be practice.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by cmacf1

BTW - I have ABSOLUTELY nothing against you wanting to save yourself for marriage. I think that is really admirable. I also have NOTHING against you not wanting to have kids. But I stand by what I said about it being normal for people to change their minds about many different things over the many phases of their lives.

Having a vasectomy is sometimes reversible and sometimes it's not. I'm sure you're not even thinking about that topic, but I did some research and here's one thing I found (don't know if this is reliable information or not, just something I found online):

Q. What percentage of men have second thoughts and want to reverse their vasectomies?

A. The numbers are around 2 to 6 percent — between 10,000 and 30,000 men a year. Even though we have a pretty good success rate, I still tell men coming in for a vasectomy that this is a permanent form of contraception. I try to make sure that they’ve thought it through and talked with their partner. I’m very reluctant, for example, to perform vasectomies on young single men who have not had children. When we perform a vasectomy, we don’t want to have to reverse it later.

Here's the link: Vasectomy - Expert Q & A - The Myths and Realities of a Vasectomy - NY Times Health

10,000-30,000 men is not an insignificant number. And if you say, "I'm SURE I won't change my mind," do you think those 10,000-30,000 men would have had a vasectomy thinking they would change their minds? Of course not. They were SURE also when they had their vasectomies, but they changed their minds. I am NOT saying you are going to change your mind, but it could happen.

Lest you think I'm against your decision, here's a pretty good article from an NBC interview I saw a while ago about a 28 year old single childless guy who had a vasectomy. It talks about how he deals with telling potential girlfriends and the fact that there ARE women out there who are very suppportive of his decision: Vasectomy at 28: One man's decision - Health - MSNBC.com. I agree you should do what you think you should, but you need to be aware that it's often irreversible in case you do change your mind.

My friend said 1 on 10 men who have vasectomies regret it. They may regret it and feel guilty for having a vasectomy, but I don't they should feel any shame in it.

I do hope a future girl I'm with will understand that if I tell her that I'm childfree permanantly or I had a vasectomy, she won't run off in terror like something's wrong with me. I read the article, and whats so sad is that most of the childfree are single.

I read the comments directed at Tony and I was shocked at some of the comments the parents left said they though people who never want kids and want to get sterilized are selfish and lonely, and kids are a blessing.

Its a pitty that some childfree individuals can't find the right one for them. We don't have it easy at all.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

You're kiddin', right...?!

I don't think she is...

That's why I mentioned mental grocery lists - at least you keep up SOME appearance of interest...

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by LAFan

What about a man who had experience with a stripper. No sex or nothing, how he handles a stripper. That could be practice.

You'd have to be in a VERY liberal club to practice that particular form of exercise.

I'd have to bounce you out of my place.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

You'd have to be in a VERY liberal club to practice that particular form of exercise.

I'd have to bounce you out of my place.

I was at those liberal clubs, and was she fine. It makes me excited to even think about it.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by LAFan

I was at those liberal clubs, and was she fine. It makes me excited to even think about it.

There's hope for you yet, son!