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Thanks for everyone's opinions, I really appreciate them.
Regarding the issue, I know the right thing to do is break up with her, I just figured I would get some anonymous opinions from people I dont know, as opposed to getting opinions from my family (they have tried pushing me into marriage for many years, and just never felt it was for me). After her stalking behavior, i did establish boundaries with her and advised her that if she ever tried this again, I would break up, and she has been respectful since then. She means well and although I think she would be a good mother, i think that the whole situation with her is not for me and I am going to go back to being single again.
Which now leads me to my second question: Aside from this relationship, I have to confess, I also have a "secret girlfriend" on the side, I sometimes tell my existing GF that I need some space and time alone, and even though she fights this, she respects it, and in those nights where I "need my space", I hve this other girl come over. Yes, I am cheating on my existing GF with this other girl. If I move to Dallas, I am going to have to break up with BOTH of them. What is the best way to end it with the other girl?
Also, one night I left my email logged in by accident, and my existing "stalker" GF looked at my mail when i was asleep, and she saw the back and forth emails from the other girl. She confronted me about it, and I had to lie about it. I told her that it was an ex who still keeps in touch with me, but that there is nothing going on. What is the best way to end this type of relationship? Is there a good way?
I have a GF who I have been dating for only 5 months. She started talking about marriage after about, literally, 1 month of dating. She scared away two other girls I had just met, and was starteding to date, while figuring who I liked the most, by basicly stalking me. She constantly stays over EVERY night, wont let me sleep alone and wont give me space or personal time; she is really hott and really cute, Im 35 and she is 26, but, this stalker behavior really bothers me. I have TRIED to break up with her, but I am weak, for some reason I can never pull the trigger. Now, I am in the process of moving to Dallas, I told her I am moving, and she wound up talking me into taking a trip with her to Dallas back in May, so she could see where I will be living (Uptown) and she said she LOVED it and wants to move there with me in a couple months. My married brother tells me that she is actually perfect and I should man up, pull the trigger, move to Dallas with her and get married.
What are the problems? here:
1. Stalker behaviour
2. Flat chested (sorry ladies, it can be important to guys)
3. Most important - even tho she likes to have a lot of sex, she is not great in bed, she lays there and makes me do all the work, wont talk dirty etc. Its like having sex with a pillow or a blow up doll. Oh - and she wont "trim" down there (trying to keep it clean).
Ok, what should I do? Run for the hills, or just accept her flaws and get married to her?
(My thoughts: not a good idea to get married to someone whom I dont really like having sex with.)
Thanks in advance.
I think you should follow your heart, if you take your brothers advice you will have this loving women trimming it into the shape of a bulls eye, have the Glade Plug In Theme Song On CD and screaming all kinds of obscenities at you so you can feel better. Then when shes on the market again who's going to want her?
Which now leads me to my second question: Aside from this relationship, I have to confess, I also have a "secret girlfriend" on the side, I sometimes tell my existing GF that I need some space and time alone, and even though she fights this, she respects it, and in those nights where I "need my space", I hve this other girl come over. Yes, I am cheating on my existing GF with this other girl. If I move to Dallas, I am going to have to break up with BOTH of them. What is the best way to end it with the other girl?
You need to start by being honest with both of them and yourself. You are not ready to "settle down" with anyone yet. Tell both you are moving away and can no longer see them and that you don't want either of them ot move with you. That will take care of the situation.
Wow you were cheating on her? You obviously have no respect for anyone involved including yourself. End all relationships and move already and get some professional help.
Thanks for everyone's opinions, I really appreciate them.
Regarding the issue, I know the right thing to do is break up with her, I just figured I would get some anonymous opinions from people I dont know, as opposed to getting opinions from my family (they have tried pushing me into marriage for many years, and just never felt it was for me). After her stalking behavior, i did establish boundaries with her and advised her that if she ever tried this again, I would break up, and she has been respectful since then. She means well and although I think she would be a good mother, i think that the whole situation with her is not for me and I am going to go back to being single again.
Which now leads me to my second question: Aside from this relationship, I have to confess, I also have a "secret girlfriend" on the side, I sometimes tell my existing GF that I need some space and time alone, and even though she fights this, she respects it, and in those nights where I "need my space", I hve this other girl come over. Yes, I am cheating on my existing GF with this other girl. If I move to Dallas, I am going to have to break up with BOTH of them. What is the best way to end it with the other girl?
Also, one night I left my email logged in by accident, and my existing "stalker" GF looked at my mail when i was asleep, and she saw the back and forth emails from the other girl. She confronted me about it, and I had to lie about it. I told her that it was an ex who still keeps in touch with me, but that there is nothing going on. What is the best way to end this type of relationship? Is there a good way?
God, I hope you aren't a real person - please be a troll. Real men like this give all men a bad name.
Here's the best thing I can say to you at this point - grow up. And learn to tell the truth - unless you WANT to be a man of no character for the rest of your life.
Oh, and please do the world a favor and don't procreate until you do grow up and find your conscience.
God, I hope you aren't a real person - please be a troll. Real men like this give all men a bad name.
Here's the best thing I can say to you at this point - grow up. And learn to tell the truth - unless you WANT to be a man of no character for the rest of your life.
Oh, and please do the world a favor and don't procreate until you do grow up and find your conscience.
God, I hope you aren't a real person - please be a troll. Real men like this give all men a bad name.
Here's the best thing I can say to you at this point - grow up. And learn to tell the truth - unless you WANT to be a man of no character for the rest of your life.
Oh, and please do the world a favor and don't procreate until you do grow up and find your conscience.
I second this as well!
Who does this guy think he is exactly??
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Reason: misspelling
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Well, I'll settle for funny.
Thanks!
