Should I break up with my GF, or move in with her? (how to, girls)

[VoyagerMan]

Well, shes 25, your 35...seems like she has daddy issues...she may be looking for a father figure since her's is a mother now.

[artsyguy]

How is she psycho? lol. She sounds childish and inconsiderate NOT psycho.

Originally Posted by steelstress

She sounds psycho to me.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

How is she psycho? lol. She sounds childish and inconsiderate NOT psycho.

Oh come on artsy, she has stalker written all over her. At the very least she has boundry issues.

But our op?? HE's the real piece of work.

[artsyguy]

lol "daddy issues" and you know this because???
And did you forget he is 35 and might have issues too?

Like with a greedy/inconsiderate child you set boundaries and enforce them. Like in any healthy relationship you set boundaries and enforce them respectfully.

Originally Posted by VoyagerMan

Well, shes 25, your 35...seems like she has daddy issues...she may be looking for a father figure since her's is a mother now.

[artsyguy]

Boundary issues doesn't equal psycho. Psychos do not have guilt or empathy. Plus how do you know boundaries were enforced or even established.

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Oh come on artsy, she has stalker written all over her. At the very least she has boundry issues.

But our op?? HE's the real piece of work.

[VoyagerMan]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

lol "daddy issues" and you know this because???

I assume this is sarcasm. Hard to judge by typed words. Although the weird face looks a little sarcastic too.

Yes he is 35..but damn...I wouldn't mind having some fun with a younger girl. I wouldn't marry her though.

[lovesMountains]

Here's a hint for chop chop - though these things are so painfully obvious I cannot believe a 35 year man has to be told this...

You marry the woman you would rather die than be without.

You marry the woman you crave physical intimacy with above and beyond all others.

You marry the woman you know will be a wonderful mother to your children.

You marry the woman you would literally step in front of a moving freight train to save or protect - literally the woman you would lose your life for if you were in a life or death situation.

DO YOU FEEL THIS WAY AT ALL ABOUT THIS GIRL?? Somehow, I don't think so.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Boundary issues doesn't equal psycho. Psychos do not have guilt or empathy. Plus how do you know boundaries were enforced or even established.

Emotionally healthy people establish their OWN boundries - they don't wait to have them enforced.

I didn't call her psycho, by the way - I said she has stalker potential meaning she is a troubled young woman.

[VoyagerMan]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Here's a hint for chop chop - though these things are so painfully obvious I cannot believe a 35 year man has to be told this...

You marry the woman you would rather die than be without.

You marry the woman you crave physical intimacy with above and beyond all others.

You marry the woman you know will be a wonderful mother to your children.

You marry the woman you would literally step in front of a moving freight train to save or protect - literally the woman you would lose your life for if you were in a life or death situation.

DO YOU FEEL THIS WAY AT ALL ABOUT THIS GIRL?? Somehow, I don't think so.

I agree. Good post.

[artsyguy]

Sounds greedy.

Originally Posted by VoyagerMan

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Yes he is 35..but damn...I wouldn't mind having some fun with a younger girl. I wouldn't marry her though.