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Old 03-10-2009, 10:10 PM
 
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I didn't know there was a problem out there between the sexes. Meeting women and socializing hasn't changed much over the years. If a woman is into you, she's not thinking about feminist agendas. There is a mutual attraction and you're both putting your best foot forward and hopefully being honest. You go through the "getting to know you" phase of dating and take it one day at a time. It's not very complicated, at least I never thought it was. You're either a good match for one another or you aren't. I don't think anyone needs a thesis or dissertation to tell them how to think, react or weed out a prospective partner. Nature has been running its course since time began and there is no substitute for good old chemistry. Chemistry and attraction trumps activism and social trends every time.
Yes, this theory is spot on. Know what you want early in life. If it is a wife and kids then that is what you should look for in a partner. If you want a life of being single and dating many women that that is what you should seek out. The most important thing to remember is either she is into you or not. If she isn't don't even bother, just move on. Eventually you'll find people who are compatible with your lifestyle and that is where happiness is achieved.
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Old 03-10-2009, 10:19 PM
 
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lmao I read about 30% of it and it is spot on.

Almost everything I read was spot on.

Essentially feminism has destroyed family and marriage so as a man you are a fool to get married. Even relationships are questionable. Just stay single, get a vasectomy and be polygamous. What more does a man need, honestly?

Same thing for you laides, forget about marriage. You don't want to be stuck washing dishes for the rest of your life, do you?




I wouldn't browse the internet for personal reasons while at work.

So what do you suggest killer 2021? That we all become gay or what?
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Old 03-11-2009, 07:23 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Love sucks anyway. Might as well invest in "self help tools" and become a mountain man in Montana or something.

But really "feminism" only applies to the extreme women who want to take over the world. The equality movement has my vote all day long. We are all human. It doesn't matter if you are male, female, gay, straight, black, white, brown, or any color between, tall, short, thin, fat, ugly, beautiful, whatever tag you want to insert. You deserve to be treated the same as any other human.

A partnership is just that. Matters not if you are talking business or personal. Partnership are successful when both parties establish a set of guidelines and restrictions. Both also have to be willing to accommodate the others wishes.
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Old 03-11-2009, 12:42 PM
 
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I didn't know there was a problem out there between the sexes. Meeting women and socializing hasn't changed much over the years. If a woman is into you, she's not thinking about feminist agendas. There is a mutual attraction and you're both putting your best foot forward and hopefully being honest. You go through the "getting to know you" phase of dating and take it one day at a time. It's not very complicated, at least I never thought it was. You're either a good match for one another or you aren't. I don't think anyone needs a thesis or dissertation to tell them how to think, react or weed out a prospective partner. Nature has been running its course since time began and there is no substitute for good old chemistry. Chemistry and attraction trumps activism and social trends every time.


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Yes, this theory is spot on. Know what you want early in life. If it is a wife and kids then that is what you should look for in a partner. If you want a life of being single and dating many women that that is what you should seek out. The most important thing to remember is either she is into you or not. If she isn't don't even bother, just move on. Eventually you'll find people who are compatible with your lifestyle and that is where happiness is achieved.
Coolhand68 sounds like he's one of those rare and lucky guys who is gainfully employed in one of those places where single women are plentiful. It would be interesting to get the women's side of it there. Probably a lot like what most men face elsewhere.

I do agree with "If a woman is into you, she's not thinking about feminist agendas." Of course, this is why so many make such poor decisions. They start with the best intentions............
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Old 03-11-2009, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Coolhand68 sounds like he's one of those rare and lucky guys who is gainfully employed in one of those places where single women are plentiful. It would be interesting to get the women's side of it there. Probably a lot like what most men face elsewhere.

I do agree with "If a woman is into you, she's not thinking about feminist agendas." Of course, this is why so many make such poor decisions. They start with the best intentions............[/quote]


Actually for most of my 17 year military career I've worked in office environments heavily populated by menopausal aged women. No one would ever mistake my office for the Playboy Mansion.

I did work in bars and nightclubs for about 20 years though, and I've seen just about every faux pas one could commit along with all the other mating rituals people mistake for acceptable behavior towards the opposite sex. Over the course of my 20 or so years working in clubs all I can say is...the more things change, the more they stay the same.
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Old 03-11-2009, 01:17 PM
 
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lmao I read about 30% of it and it is spot on.

Almost everything I read was spot on.


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Hmmmm, have you done your research on The Occidental? Look into it and see if you still believe it is "spot on"
The plagerized portion was at the start. The neo-facist prescriptions were mainly at the end. Notice the considerable difference in writing style and prose quality.

The plagerized material could easily have been grafted on to a feminist tract. These observations can lead to a number of conclusions. However, its difficult to argue with most of the observations, as much as many people would like to IGNORE them.
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Old 03-11-2009, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Philly
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lmao I read about 30% of it and it is spot on.

Almost everything I read was spot on.

Essentially feminism has destroyed family and marriage so as a man you are a fool to get married. Even relationships are questionable. Just stay single, get a vasectomy and be polygamous. What more does a man need, honestly?

Same thing for you laides, forget about marriage. You don't want to be stuck washing dishes for the rest of your life, do you?




I wouldn't browse the internet for personal reasons while at work.

Well I guess City Data would shut down btw 9-5 if nobody posted at work. I don't look at porn at work- the links in threads cause the blocker to come on.
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Old 03-12-2009, 12:48 PM
 
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Well I guess City Data would shut down btw 9-5 if nobody posted at work. I don't look at porn at work- the links in threads cause the blocker to come on.
We have a pretty comprehensive "net nanny" here at work, but I doubt that something written in pdf format would cause a problem unless the site that it was on, was banned for other reasons. Americans are mainly interested in keeping people from spanking the monkey at work. Its assumed that reading is a minority vice.
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Old 03-12-2009, 12:53 PM
 
Location: southern california
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men need a sexual revolution badly. sex is a weapon. marriage has become a farce. women have become empowered. women act like dop pushers handling their addict. but they are heavy spenders unlike most men so need more addicts hence serial divorce. men have a lot of growing to do it will not be painless.
only 50% of the evil in the world comes with male hardware, the rest is pretty much disregarded.
see the lawyer b4 the marriage not after. the enemy is often not outside--- the enemy often is in the house with you. too many late term babies goin in the trash can, this is clearly not snow white behavior.

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Old 03-12-2009, 12:53 PM
 
Location: SE Michigan
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not sure if its been said yet but,

What I can't stand are the metrosexuals. How can you call yourself a man when you get your nails done, hair highlighted, shave your body hair, etc. etc.

I'm going to go kill an animal, gut it and eat it now that I've read this thread.
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