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Old 06-22-2009, 03:07 PM
 
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I have been trying to set my good friend up with a guy that I know. He is a really nice guy, He is good looking with a terrific body, he does not have children, he does not do drugs, and he has a job and college experience. The only thing is that right now he lives with his mom. He moved in with his mom to save some money and he is working towards moving out.

So I told her all of this, and she said it was o.k. for him to call her, and he called her the day before yesterday. When I talked to her about him today, I asked her was she going to call him back, and she said she was, but I could tell in her voice that she really didn't want to. To make a long story short, I asked her why she didn't want to call him, and she said that it's cause he lives with his mom...and basically he is beneath her.

I was really upset with her about this, and i wonder how many women think like this! If it were me and I saw that they guy had goals and was working toward something I would give him a shot. She won't even give the guy the time of day based on one temporary situation. IMO, it's a shame and I am starting to feel sorry for some of the guys out here that can't even get a chance to be with someone unless they are totally perfect. She is a total B#$%h!!
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:16 PM
 
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lives with his mom...and basically he is beneath her.
This girl is bigoted. As a guy who lives with his mum and sister, I find that this type of girl is so very everywhere. I am single, 28 and never had a girlfriend. They seem to want more then men can provide for them. They are a waste of time.

Too add further, my sister living at home attracts the guys and then she moves in with them. Men don't have a problem with women living at home, but women have a problem with men living at home.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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If she feels that way, then he don`t need to date her anyway.
I see nothing wrong with it. I mean, the cost of living these days...ridiculous! Its a smart thing to do, in order to put back some money, and save for his future.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:31 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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I prefer older men, so if a guy over 40 is living with his mom to save money, I'd have a problem with it.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:32 PM
 
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I'm finding it increasingly harder to get on the relationship ladder. I really don't know what women want, its doing my bloody head in.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Coral Springs, Fl
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If I was a woman I wouldn't.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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It really depends on the circumstances, but as of today I'm gonna have to go with "no".
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:37 PM
 
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I have absolutely no problem with dating a woman that lived with he mother or even her father.
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:38 PM
 
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Well they are both in their mid twenties, so they are still rather young. I just think she should at least give him a chance, and find out what he really wants and what his goals are. But she won't even do that! I just think that it totally wrong!
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Old 06-22-2009, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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If all they are doing is dating whats the big deal? Your GF does sound like a total biaaaaaatch and you should dump her like an anchor in water. If she asks why just tell her she is beneath you. The last thing this guy needs is some brain dead lady in his life.
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