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Short answer is no .. long answer is once a woman becomes "overweight" (as defined by her husband, boyfriend, gal pals or society at large) she pretty much forfeits all rights and entitlements she apreviously had. A fat woman should just be grateful she's allowed to breath, right?
(Real answer ... WTF does the weight of the spouse have to do with porn viewing?)
If they agreed that he would not look at porn, then it's wrong for him to do it. If she can't possibly accept that he looks at porn and he cant possibly live without looking at it, then they should not continue a relationship.
In general though, I don't think there's anything wrong with watching porn, which I've said (and defended using logic and not "studies" from Christian Jesus Purity University) before.
It's similar to my belief about whether "cybering" is cheating etc etc. It is if your SO thinks it is.
I definetly think that the wife's wieght has nothing at all to do with anything in this situation.
and I've seen a lot of this talk lately. "discipline" "training" "molding" "teaching" "fixing"... What's up with women thinking it's thier job or thier right to treat a man like a dog or a child? Pretty sad.
Feels like in the past month I've seen no less than a dozen "caught him looking at porn" posts...
The wife/GF says it's either a choice, lack a discipline or an addiction that needs to be broken...But if someone is overweight, doesn't it fall under one of these categories? Just wanted to stir the drama-pot; looking forward to your insights.
Porn is a drug. Its a high. Its like when you see that attractive woman out and you wonder what it would be like to be with her, what it be like to have her service you, well porn does just that. Im not into over kinky stuff. certain catagories always get my attention. I watch it before dates, it makes the dates better because now I can actually focus on what she is saying versus trying to score. Women seem to me more aggressive when you dont try to have sex with them. I dont know why. Porn can be a tool. In the microwave, cell phone, internet era, whatever you crave at that moment in time you can have. Women that have an issue with porn have an issue with themselves. Women like sex, but dont want to be viewed as objects. Its complex to a degree.
Why do men like the OP even get married?
It would be cheaper to hire someone to clean your house once or twice a week, then you could spend your time watching porn and trolling bars for women with no self respect that will have sex with you for free. You could sample the wares of a new one each and everytime your little heart desired AND no being tied down. No one would be yelling at you about this or that, clearly a much more diserable way of life for you.
Why bother with the complication of a wife?
Thats a really good idea. And a great question why have a complicated wife?
Nah, guys like porn because they like looking at naked chicks. They like looking as sex acts, and they like variety when they masturbate. Think of the top five women you think of as being a perfect ten... I guarantee you their husbands/boyfriends watch porn too. Skinny woman, fat woman, it doesn't matter, men like porn.
This is how I feel. I live in Chicago lots of blacks, lots of white I find latin and asain porn most interesting because I dont see those women often. The Milf catagory is also a favorite because all I see all the time is co eds...the cougars barely come out. I hate women that shave! Its not cool to me, just shave the panty line area but dont weed wack it! Man why do women do that? So hairy is another catagory I watch. So if I see something a lot in my personal life, my porn options are going to be the things I dont see. You can be fat or skinny, black, white, blonde, brunette, red head, busty, big boob, big butt, cougar or co ed, whatever you are as a women there is always another women out there who is the opposite of you. I want to see her in action, because I have already saw you in action. That why I like porn. So many options. With your SO, its just that and only that.
I have not read the thread, but i am absolutely certain that if i was married to Megan Fox, i would still take some time out to stare at other naked women.
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Feels like in the past month I've seen no less than a dozen "caught him looking at porn" posts...
The wife/GF says it's either a choice, lack a discipline or an addiction that needs to be broken...But if someone is overweight, doesn't it fall under one of these categories? Just wanted to stir the drama-pot; looking forward to your insights.
Any woman who is offended by pron has the right to be mad at her S/O for watching it.
Has nothing to do with her weight or appearance.
All about how she regards porn in a personal manner.
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