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Originally Posted by Repubocrat
I was looking at porn even when I was with my ex girlfriend, she was not overweight, she is attractive but honestly, we were not having sex as much as we used to in the beginning of the relationship and I think every man gets tired of looking at the same body all the time, it does not matter how gorgeous a woman can be.
I think if a woman is overweight and does not do anything about it, the guy should break up the relationship or divorce her instead of looking at porn. I don't understand why would any guy want to be with a woman he is not even attracted to.
I don't know but all the talk about over weight women here has made me, over the past few weeks, conciously make note of over weight men and they're nearly as abundant as over weight women. Why do some men think it's ok on them [extra weight] but not on women? Is it just bad body image (they mistakenly think they look better than they do) or is it a double standard? Either way, the same can be said for over weight men as over weight women. Some seem to get a lot of mileage out of denial. Good for them. (Stay positive)
What ever floats people boats. I do love the female form, but, IDK, I keep thinking that's someone's sister/mom/daughter that the football team is tag teaming.
I think if a woman is overweight and does not do anything about it, the guy should break up the relationship or divorce her instead of looking at porn. I don't understand why would any guy want to be with a woman he is not even attracted to.
There is a concept that you might not be aware of but it doesn't involve issues of being overweight, it's called being in love. Both men and women will typically change very much over the years and it's common for both to gain weight. I personally don't believe that this fact reduces the amount of respect that a woman or a man should expect from their partner. I think that the OP is completely wrong because it seems to suggest that if a woman gains weight that they've also lost any reason to be respected or cared about.
There is a concept that you might not be aware of but it doesn't involve issues of being overweight, it's called being in love. Both men and women will typically change very much over the years and it's common for both to gain weight. I personally don't believe that this fact reduces the amount of respect that a woman or a man should expect from their partner. I think that the OP is completely wrong because it seems to suggest that if a woman gains weight that they've also lost any reason to be respected or cared about.
Good in theory but it does not work that way. If a person I am in love with gained 100 pounds, I am sorry but there is no way I am going to be attracted to that person physically or sexually. If the person is willing to do something about it, then I would stick around and be patient. Now a person who is fat and simply does not care would not be the kind of person I would want to be with.
Not quite sure where you were trying to go here but you do realize I was speaking of feelings and not sensation, right? And not just women's feelings but anyones, men's or women's, hence, I said 'someone'.
The laughing tongue (sounds like a neat name for a pub) tells me you knew precisely where I was going with that! This is one weird thread and I'm amazed it's lasted so long, even with resurrection!
I still don't understand why anyone should be mad about porn. Porn is not a substitute. Sex is sex and looking at porn is just a 'personal' experience.
I still don't understand why anyone should be mad about porn. Porn is not a substitute. Sex is sex and looking at porn is just a 'personal' experience.
While enlightened people have no issue with porn in general, moralistic, repressed religious zealots still lay an egg over the very mention of it. It's one of those issue that gets their knickers in a knot.
While enlightened people have no issue with porn in general, moralistic, repressed religious zealots still lay an egg over the very mention of it. It's one of those issue that gets their knickers in a knot.
Most married women I know (religious or not - in fact, most of them are LEFT wingers) get their knickers in a knot, too...
I'm a woman and I have no problems with it. Masturbation is part of your sexuality as is your sex life with another human being...it's not like if you do one, you can't or shouldn't do the other.
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And not just women's feelings but anyones, men's or women's, hence, I said 'someone'. 
