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I'm not sure if I have answered the OP's question but I do not believe an overweight woman should be mad at her husband for that unless he is looking at gay porn or worse. Then there is a problem.
I'm not sure if I have answered the OP's question but I do not believe an overweight woman should be mad at her husband for that unless he is looking at gay porn or worse. Then there is a problem.
Nothing wrong with a straight man looking at gay porn per se; it only sets off alarms if it's ALL he looks at.
Should an ugly man care if his wife is looking at porn? WTH? What difference does the appearance of the spouse have to do with looking at porn? If a wife doesn't not want her man to look at porn, she can be upset regardless of her size.
I don't see porn as a problem unless you watch so much that you neglect your spouse, or there has been a considerable increase in the amount watched. The latter may be a sign of a problem in the relationship (and yes, one such problem could be the spouse's weight gain that makes them less sexually desirable).
I take issue with women who read lots of romance novels. I think of that as emotional porn. The implication is that they can't get what they need from their spouse, and are substituting. A moderate amount may get a woman in the mood, just as some visual porn may get a man in the mood - for their spouse.
My GF isn't overweight and she doesn't care if I watch porn. She'll watch some porn too when I'm away for a few weeks. I'm not the type of guy who throws a fit if she masturbates either.
I agree that porn addiction is a problem. Especially because those who suffer from it are never satisfied with just "normal" sex and their libido eventually plummets. That directly impacts the relationships.
But if I watch some everynow and then or she does, it's really not a big deal. It's just another way to get stimulation. People who look at it as cheating are really streching it to justify their insecurity. Just because your significant other touches himself and uses visual stimulation doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that you,re bad in bed.
Besides, if people aren't using porn to stimulate themselves, are you gonna try to control their imagination and fantasies when they masturbate?
Should an ugly man care if his wife is looking at porn? WTH? What difference does the appearance of the spouse have to do with looking at porn? If a wife doesn't not want her man to look at porn, she can be upset regardless of her size.
Most men aren't attracted to large women. A woman might decide she does not want her man to look at porn (kinda controlling btw), but she shouldn't be surprised if she let herself go that her man looks at beautiful women, both in real life and pornography.
This goes for guys as well. When men think just because they got married or have had kids that they can become couch potatoes with a beer gut, they shouldn't act surprised if their women aren't interested in sex with them and fantasize about other men.
Feels like in the past month I've seen no less than a dozen "caught him looking at porn" posts...
The wife/GF says it's either a choice, lack a discipline or an addiction that needs to be broken...But if someone is overweight, doesn't it fall under one of these categories? Just wanted to stir the drama-pot; looking forward to your insights.
Not all men have one dimensional taste. If men just wanted to look at thin women the porn industry would be small and boring, sort of like the above post. Oh let me guess, is humiliation your fetish?
It may work for some couples and not others, if it upsets your spouse, it means her feelings are hurt, then why would you want to do that....? Because it's in you to do, your not looking at porn b/c your wife is over weight, way to go champ...pass the buck and blame....
yanno, people will look for any excuse today to be dishonest, or hurt someone else...to heck with everyone else's feelings, I'm going to do what I want and blame you in the process for doing so...sheesh....
Tell me American's aren't greedy and self imposed....not to mention, psst, shows how really unintellectual you are?
Sorry, but someone has to stop this cycle by telling the truth....if your wife didn't mind, then no problemo...but she does, and it's hurting her, so you come on here, and want to be justified for doing so...coward! I'm sorry your wife has to put up with you...all your concerned about is, yourself....
we have become a world of blaming others for our misgivings...
like, owwww, hey, I killed that person b/c I had a really rough child hood, oh, that poor poor criminal....sheeesh?
Whats wrong with porn? Im a thin female and have no problem with my man watching porn \. I watch too.
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