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no, I think you can teach each other certain things. You'd have to be willing to work at it and want it to improve!
(not talking about me, of course! )
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This is sort of a spin off the, "How long can you go without sex" thread.
Oooooo yea....i'd be gone.....not to be shallow but sex makes up a huge part of a relationship....what...are you supposed to go the rest of your life without being completely satisified??? No way not lola!
no, I think you can teach each other certain things. You'd have to be willing to work at it and want it to improve!
(not talking about me, of course! )
What if they won't even try to improve or even after all your "lessons" it hasn't gotten any better?
You can WANT it to improve all you want but if it doesn't, then what?
well, if he wasn't willing to work on it or help to improve it, then I'd have to bail. can't be with someone who isn't willing to work on things, sexual or otherwise.
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Originally Posted by LiveTodayLez08
What if they won't even try to improve or even after all your "lessons" it hasn't gotten any better?
You can WANT it to improve all you want but if it doesn't, then what?
If the sex sucks but this isn't the person you are going to marry then move on. If this person is really great or the "one" then you need to talk to them. Teach them and be patient but never criticize. Every one has different likes and tastes. Explore them. Hopefully they are willing to try it. If not well you really need to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is inflexible.
I think if the person loves you they will try their best to make you happy.
If the sex sucks but this isn't the person you are going to marry then move on. If this person is really great or the "one" then you need to talk to them. Teach them and be patient but never criticize. Every one has different likes and tastes. Explore them. Hopefully they are willing to try it.
It's not only about trying, younglisa. Some things (techniques) can be taught; some things (passion) cannot.
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