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Old 11-05-2009, 11:37 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I ask myself this question from time to time (BTW, I am not seeking to do this). If something happened to my dh or we divorced for some reason, would I get married again?

I honestly don't know. I am totally open to being with someone without the "paper" but I don't think I could say NEVER to marriage again.

What are your thoughts?
If it does happen you let the Capt. know! He knows where Carolina is!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-05-2009, 11:41 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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If it does happen you let the Capt. know! He knows where Carolina is!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is this a "future" proposal?
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Old 11-05-2009, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Is this a "future" proposal?
Si Si Si!!!!!!!!!!!! Cant resist you mountain mamas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-05-2009, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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My wife says that if I die, she won't be getting married again. She assumes that if she dies, I will remarry. She thinks that women can live alone, but men can't.

I've told her that I won't be getting remarried. The closest I might consider is living together, but I even doubt that.
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Old 11-05-2009, 12:51 PM
 
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My wife says that if I die, she won't be getting married again. She assumes that if she dies, I will remarry. She thinks that women can live alone, but men can't.

I've told her that I won't be getting remarried. The closest I might consider is living together, but I even doubt that.
I agree. I don't need any more nagging.
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Old 11-05-2009, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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If there's one thing I've learned, it's never to say never. While I'd like to say I'd never get married again, because those are my exact sentiments at this moment, who knows what can happen 5 or 10 years down the road. I certainly wouldn't close my mind off to the idea entirely, but she would have to be one special woman in order to get me to sign on the dotted line again. I can say without a doubt that I would bask in my solitude without living with anyone for awhile. I'd date and even maintain a serious monogomous relationship, but I wouldn't want to live with anyone for a long time to come.
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Old 11-05-2009, 03:08 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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It would take a miracle!
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Old 11-05-2009, 03:32 PM
 
Location: West Chester, Ohio
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No!
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Old 11-05-2009, 06:08 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I certainly wouldn't close my mind off to the idea entirely, but she would have to be one special woman in order to get me to sign on the dotted line again. I can say without a doubt that I would bask in my solitude without living with anyone for awhile. I'd date and even maintain a serious monogomous relationship, but I wouldn't want to live with anyone for a long time to come.
I find this strange because my impression is you're happily married. Didn't think such people feel the need for long solitude. Also, aren't they more likely to remarry since they've had it good...?
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Old 11-05-2009, 06:55 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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A husband and wife lay in bed one night. The wife is obviously thinking about something, and she finally asks, "Honey, if I were to die, would you remarry?"

The man answers, "Of course not. I could never love anyone as much as I love you."

His wife says to him, "I don't want you to be alone. You deserve someone in your life to love you and take care of you. Promise me you'll think about getting married again."

The man replies, "All right, I promise."

After a short pause, the woman then asks, "What about my car? Would you let her drive my car?"

Her husband answers, "Sweetheart, don't talk like that. I can't imagine marrying anybody else, honestly, so nobody is going to drive it. This is a silly conversation, and you're starting to upset me."

The woman insists, "You promised you'd consider it, and that's a very good car. It's practically new. It would be a shame not to keep on using it. I don't want you to waste money, even after I'm gone. Promise me you'll let her drive my car."

The man replies, "All right, I promise."

His wife is quiet for a time and then speaks again. "What about my golf clubs? They're top of the line. You'd let her use them, wouldn't you?"

The man answers, "Oh, sweetie, no ... she's left-handed."
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