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HAHA! Ain't that the truth. I can't tell you how many times people I know have broken up over facebook.
FB and other social networking sites have a way of reconnecting old flings because of misguided feelings of nostalgia as well as connecting complete strangers in a "that person is hot and I'll never get caught" sort of way.
I am literally the only person I know close to my age that doesn't use Facebook and I will always keep it that way. Plus I don't like leaving a footprint of my life for teh world to see.
It's a tool of the Devil I tell you!!!!!
Lol I'll never have a FB page. Ever. My DH has one for work and I never even look at it.
Well like I said, I am laid back and do not mind the paying for things, and being a maid....I am pretty OCD about neatness and stuff. He does try to do things around the house, when I remind him. And I was ok with all this...until he would not include me in facebook. I know it sounds childish, but he never communicates and he can sit right in front of me and not say a word. I ask him things to try to see where his head/thoughts are and he always replies with nothing. NO kidding when I say we go for day's with out really saying much. It's like hie cares for me...but does not have any intentions of going further. But then we have these two cat and he always talks to them like babies, even goes as far as calling them his daughter cat and son cat. Also he refers to me as mama when he is talking to them. Maybe it is the mixed signals that have be in all sorts of freaking out mode. Dunno....getting worn out. I do not have alot of friends, and he is all that I have or know. My fam. is not my real fam., but i refer to them as such. I was an orphan and these peeps kinda took a liking towards me. So I kinda have this fear of never being a part of a fam. Just was hoping that I could kinda be thought of as part of his fam., so to speak. But someone told me once and orphan, always an orphan...just was hoping not to feel like that.
Well like I said, I am laid back and do not mind the paying for things, and being a maid....I am pretty OCD about neatness and stuff. He does try to do things around the house, when I remind him. And I was ok with all this...until he would not include me in facebook. I know it sounds childish, but he never communicates and he can sit right in front of me and not say a word. I ask him things to try to see where his head/thoughts are and he always replies with nothing. NO kidding when I say we go for day's with out really saying much. It's like hie cares for me...but does not have any intentions of going further. But then we have these two cat and he always talks to them like babies, even goes as far as calling them his daughter cat and son cat. Also he refers to me as mama when he is talking to them. Maybe it is the mixed signals that have be in all sorts of freaking out mode. Dunno....getting worn out. I do not have alot of friends, and he is all that I have or know. My fam. is not my real fam., but i refer to them as such. I was an orphan and these peeps kinda took a liking towards me. So I kinda have this fear of never being a part of a fam. Just was hoping that I could kinda be thought of as part of his fam., so to speak. But someone told me once and orphan, always an orphan...just was hoping not to feel like that.
Now you're hitting the nail on the head! You want more communication in your relationship and to feel part of something bigger and Facebook represents these things to you!
If I were you, I would tell him WHY it bothers you...the rejection and lack of communication hurts you...if he does not understand your feelings you will probably be back here asking how to get him out of your house!
He is not stupid he knows my past and how I feel about being part of something, but he just did not understand.
You are probably right...one situation can mean so many things to so many people and he is not coming from the same place you are...I would still talk to him about it again...
I wouldn't put up with it. If something is on the internet, for everyone ELSE to see, I'd want to be part of it. There is no such a thing as "my own private life away from you" when you are in a relationsihp. You may do things seperate, but not secretly with other people. ESPECIALLY Facebook, where emotional affairs are born. Nope nope nope.
You are probably right...one situation can mean so many things to so many people and he is not coming from the same place you are...I would still talk to him about it again...
Hell with talking ..make your own facebook and befriend all his friends..and not him. Give and take baby. He doesn't give, you take it away from him. Do to others as they do to you...give him a taste of his own medicine....har har har har...
Hell with talking ..make your own facebook and befriend all his friends..and not him. Give and take baby. He doesn't give, you take it away from him. Do to others as they do to you...give him a taste of his own medicine....har har har har...
Naaa...life's too short to play games...tell him what is up and get over it or move on
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