boyfriend won't add me to his facebook.... but all his family and friends are on there. (married, girl)
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No I do not think you are "overreacting"! I have ignored friend requests from people I was involved with because I didn't want them to see my other friends, read my blogs, ect! I would definitely confront him about it, it truly seems as though he has something to hide!
Good Luck
Under-reacting if anything. Seriously you already know that his behavior is unacceptable. You don't need us to tell you. Listen to your gut girl. Nothing that you have written is ok. Flirting, ignoring you, not acknowledging your relationship....how many more red flags do you need?
My first bit of advice: just run away. He's probably no good.
Second - if he's really worth it, perhaps you both should just give up the online accounts in the interest of the relationship. I have a friend who had a similar situation (more that her fiance/husband was oogling than actually flirting/cheating) but it bothered her. So neither of them have facebook accounts. Seems to work for them.
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FB, what a waste of time. But that's another topic. Sounds like you two have bigger issues than some stupid networking site. I'd have cut him loose a long time ago.
My boyfriend and I have had trouble with jealousy on myspace and are no longer friends on myspace (mainly I would get upset when he was being flirty with females). About a year ago, I sent my boyfriend a friend request on Facebook and he ignored it. My boyfriend is a journalist on TV and he has a lot of attractive female facebook friends. He spends A LOT of his time on Facebook. He has a lot of photographs of himself and other women on his facebook but no pictures of me on his facebook. His relationship status is blank although we are "in a relationship". Most of his photos are hidden, but I can see a few (the ones he allows me to see). I cannot help but feel left out and I am getting really upset over this. Am I overreacting?
No I don't think you're overreacting.I'd dump him.
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Originally Posted by ChrissyMerrick
My boyfriend and I have had trouble with jealousy on myspace and are no longer friends on myspace (mainly I would get upset when he was being flirty with females). About a year ago, I sent my boyfriend a friend request on Facebook and he ignored it. My boyfriend is a journalist on TV and he has a lot of attractive female facebook friends. He spends A LOT of his time on Facebook. He has a lot of photographs of himself and other women on his facebook but no pictures of me on his facebook. His relationship status is blank although we are "in a relationship". Most of his photos are hidden, but I can see a few (the ones he allows me to see). I cannot help but feel left out and I am getting really upset over this. Am I overreacting?
I'm doubting this is real.
Let's assume it is. He has something to hide obviously.
My boyfriend and I have had trouble with jealousy on myspace and are no longer friends on myspace (mainly I would get upset when he was being flirty with females). About a year ago, I sent my boyfriend a friend request on Facebook and he ignored it. My boyfriend is a journalist on TV and he has a lot of attractive female facebook friends. He spends A LOT of his time on Facebook. He has a lot of photographs of himself and other women on his facebook but no pictures of me on his facebook. His relationship status is blank although we are "in a relationship". Most of his photos are hidden, but I can see a few (the ones he allows me to see). I cannot help but feel left out and I am getting really upset over this. Am I overreacting?
You have a choice to make. You either stay with him and his disrepect or leave.
Have you friended him on FB? If so, delete him. He's single and ready to mingle on FB. He's not your boyfriend on there.
I think that you aughta hold out and bite the bullet on this problem, at least while things are happening so quickly here
on the internet, in relation to those social network sites. You might soon have cause for a lawsuit.
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