Am I Too Old Fashioned Because I Don't Think Sex On The First Date Is A Good Idea?

[WhyShouldIWorry]

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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
I don't see anything wrong with it, two consenting adults make the decision and it happens.

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Originally Posted by andreaspercheron

Agreed but not for the makings of a long-term relationship. I agree that two consenting adults can make a decision to sleep with each other right after they meet but it would have to be based on needs and a one time deal.
If you want to turn it into spending the night and making a go of it, why would you want to be with someone who gave it up so easily?

If a woman wants to have sex with an unattainable man, it MUST be on the first date since he will not wait around.

Then she can be forever dissatisfied with those men who will stick around. Why settle for less than “the best” is today’s mantra.

[max's mama]

Originally Posted by lilred0005

I have a friend who met a girl a week ago, they had sex after their first date, and she's already spent the nite twice at his house. Am I just old fashioned for thinking this is really not a good thing? They've only known each other for a wk and are already hooking up. What do you guys really think about a woman who will have sex with you after only one date? Do you think it's fine and you would persue a relationship? I'm starting to feel really out of it because I see this a lot but I just don't agree with it. I'm not saying one has to wait for marriage, but sex with someone I just met is not an option for me. What do you all think?

There is no right or wrong here, at least in my opinion. What works for her may not work for you. People should just follow their intuition and practice safe sex.

[andreaspercheron]

Originally Posted by WhyShouldIWorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
I don't see anything wrong with it, two consenting adults make the decision and it happens.

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If a woman wants to have sex with an unattainable man, it MUST be on the first date since he will not wait around.

Then she can be forever dissatisfied with those men who will stick around. Why settle for less than “the best” is today’s mantra.

If he's unattainable then he's in it ONLY for sex (quicker the better) and not interested in a long term relationship because he IS UNattainable.... LOL

Sure you may meet a guy and think "Holy Crap!, I've got to get him in my bed now" but once he does, he's gone. A good man will wait and be patient. If a man is that unattainable then he's always going to be that way whether you bang him the minute you see him or make him wait.