I'd like to ask the ladies out there a sexual question
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He can have his porn and a bottle of hand lotion?
Get him a fleshlight?
If a man is requesting just "sex" from his wife as if it's her spousal duty, then I have no sympathy for him. Why should us females be so understanding of a man's constant need for sexual release, when the menfolk don't make an effort to understand our needs?
I think that the potentially happiest solution for most sex starved men is if they turn to a gay lifestyle... then they can have all the sex they need, and with little emotional attachments. AND... their partners won't get pregnant on them.
He can have his porn and a bottle of hand lotion?
Get him a fleshlight?
If a man is requesting just "sex" from his wife as if it's her spousal duty, then I have no sympathy for him. Why should us females be so understanding of a man's constant need for sexual release, when the menfolk don't make an effort to understand our needs?
I think that the potentially happiest solution for most sex starved men is if they turn to a gay lifestyle... then they can have all the sex they need, and with little emotional attachments. AND... their partners won't get pregnant on them.
You misunderstand miu, men are more than just sex machines, woman should take care of her other man's needs in addition to his sexual needs.
My point was I keep on hearing what men have to do for their women and not what their women have to do for their men.
I don't think that Artsyguy would appreciate your comment. lol
I think that the potentially happiest solution for most sex starved men is if they turn to a gay lifestyle... then they can have all the sex they need, and with little emotional attachments. AND... their partners won't get pregnant on them.
So, let me see, gay guys just have random sex and have no attachment to one another.
I understand that this is the stereotypical hetro point of view.
I'm sure that they are plenty of gay people in loving and committed relationships.
I hear so many complaints from husbands including myself that their wives have completely lost interest in sex...Now I've heard all the reasons why, from menopause to loss of testosterone...My question is... so what...its not like sex is torture...even if you have lost your sexual drive..its still a pleasurable experience...I don't understand...why you wives are so against giving your husband sex...and from what I've heard its one of the main reasons why husbands leave their marriage excluding money problems...
Look at Tiger Woods...women have asked me why would tiger cheat on his wife...she's so attractive...well if the truth be known...I bet he wasn't getting anything at home and guess what!!!!
Don't care about Tiger, i have my own Tiger to deal with. I guess hubby and myself are different after 36 yrs of happy marriage. There is still sexual drive, and the sex is highly intensified. We do things we love to do together, have the same interests, and yes still have wild, passionate, tender, soft, kinky sex. So i cannot speak for myself. I did go thru a period after the big H of not wanting sex. But those feelings returned for me with a bang, and sex is better then ever, we love only each other, and the SEX SHOWS. I still look very good for my age, infact yesterday, a women said to me you can't be -- that age, and i said oh yes i am and proud of it.
My hero, Dr. Laura, advises women who are not particularly interested in having sex, to "play along and pretend" that you are enjoying it and bit by bit, you will find that YOU WILL start enjoying it! My philosophy is that 10 or 15 minutes out of 24 hours is not too much to ask. It is our duty as a wife to make our husband happy and I know from experience that if you are good to your husband, that when you need it, he will be good to you.
How a man is not listening, how is not pay attention to her emotional needs, then once you hear the man's side, you realize his woman is doing none of these things for him!
Absolutely. Women are often purported to be natural experts when it comes to relationships. The reality is that most often have no idea what it takes to make a relationship be successful because everything is handed to them on a silver platter. When they don't get things handed to them they b*tch and moan until they do, cut off sex to get their way, or they tap one of the 4 or 5 other guys waiting in the wings.
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