I'd like to ask the ladies out there a sexual question (kids, sex)
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...its not like sex is torture...even if you have lost your sexual drive..its still a pleasurable experience...I don't understand...why you wives are so against giving your husband sex...and from what I've heard its one of the main reasons why husbands leave their marriage excluding money problems...
Look at Tiger Woods...women have asked me why would tiger cheat on his wife...she's so attractive...well if the truth be known...I bet he wasn't getting anything at home and guess what!!!!
Actually, having sex if you're not in the mood can actually be kinda gross. If I'm not mentally there, the physical act can range from boring to downright repulsive. Especially if I'm cheesed off at the person or just unhappy or have less respect for them. Then I'm not really inclined to have them touch me at all.
And if Tiger Woods wanted to have sex whenever and with whomever, he shouldn't have gotten married. It's not an excuse.
And if guys want their wives to be in the mood for it more often, they should make an effort to help get them in the mood. And that includes respecting her enough to be a grown-up and help around the house, etc. Not just candlelight and flowers.
thats such a load of crap
these same women gave it up like crazy when they were dating the same guy and the guy didnt have to jump thru hoops to get it
I hear so many complaints from husbands including myself that their wives have completely lost interest in sex...Now I've heard all the reasons why, from menopause to loss of testosterone...My question is... so what...its not like sex is torture...even if you have lost your sexual drive..its still a pleasurable experience...I don't understand...why you wives are so against giving your husband sex...and from what I've heard its one of the main reasons why husbands leave their marriage excluding money problems...
Look at Tiger Woods...women have asked me why would tiger cheat on his wife...she's so attractive...well if the truth be known...I bet he wasn't getting anything at home and guess what!!!!
I have heard those complaints too. I am very lucky to be married to my best friend who still turns me on. Now there are times when our sex drives are different but like "Branson" said how hard is it for me to give my husband pleasure when he wants it, considering he gives me a life of happiness? Not much. So he can get whatever he wants whenever he wants. He just has to ask because hey I'm not a mind reader, lol.
For the people who lack the desire whether from stress or aging I urge you to make the time and make it fun. Get some toys or try something new. Sex is a very healthy and fun part of a relationship. Be adventurous and have some fun with it.
Now it's a completely different story if you are no longer attracted to or you no longer love your spouse.
I do know that my hubby won't stray. He respects and loves me too much. He also is very happy at home.
thats such a load of crap
these same women gave it up like crazy when they were dating the same guy and the guy didnt have to jump thru hoops to get it
Lol...in the beginning, everyone acts differently.
thats such a load of crap
these same women gave it up like crazy when they were dating the same guy and the guy didnt have to jump thru hoops to get it
This whole thread has me amazed and thankful that I have the marriage I do. Sex in a good relationship isn't about "giving it up" or "receiving it on demand". Its about SHARING IT, with both people being onboard with the idea. DH & I have been married for almost 30 years and we are still going strong. There have been points over the years I haven't been inclinded to "share" because of stress, or health, or other things. Just the same, there have been times where DH has been in the same mindframe. Bottom line is that if you are defining a relationship on the quantity of sex you are getting, you are missing the whole point and the relationship is already in trouble. Take it from someone who has been married a long time & who plans to live the rest of her life with this one man, don't define your relationship on just this one detail. Work on it as a whole and the details will happen without effort.
Hmmm the OP makes an interesting point. However, I see just the opposite happening. I hang out with a lot of married women and their chief complaint is not that they have to give it up too often, rather it is their husbands can't hang. I have heard a woman's appetite grows the older she gets. I don't know since i'm just over legal (lol).
Against real opposition you just end up looking like the fool.
Let's leave this decision up to the audience, shall we?
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. Now there are times when our sex drives are different but like "Branson" said how hard is it for me to give my husband pleasure when he wants it, considering he gives me a life of happiness? Not much. So he can get whatever he wants whenever he wants. He just has to ask because hey I'm not a mind reader, lol.
