Child Support Reform (men AREN'T ATM'S) (unemployed, parenting, female, world)
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Oh yeah, and my husband's baby mama did him TOTALLY dirty. They had two kids together. First was immaturity and irresponsibility on both parts. The second I do feel was her fault because she was "on birth control" but wasn't taking it.
That said, hubby (even though he was only 20 when his second child was born) worked 2.5 jobs (one full-time job, one part-time job and one every-other-weekend job) while she worked NO jobs. She found a guy who made more money and took off with my hubby's vehicle (when he bought it, he gave her the money and let her put it in her name since he worked so much he couldn't even really go do the paperwork for it, and he thought they were "together" and never thought about her screwing him) AND all of his money. Come to find out, since she was the one who handled the bills, she had been telling him bills were being paid but was banking that money to leave. Her final sign-off was spending an entire paycheck of his on clothes for herself and for the kids. A week later, he got an eviction notice because their rent hadn't been paid in THREE months (unbeknownst to him) and found out they were 2 months late on the lights, water, cable, etc etc etc.
Even now that the kids are 9 and 11, she refuses to let him see them. She "pretends" to be married to the guy -- her name is his last name on FB and such -- but she never married him because she collects every benefit that she can. This means that his child support is that much higher because of course, he has to pay for ALL of the benefits that she gets, and then some.
Women like that should be killed.
Well well well, what do we have here? Could all angry commenters read this persons post? It took a matter of 2 hours to find a fellow male abused by the system set up by this poor court system and over zealous feminist! Can you see the abuse going on here and say we don't need reform and accountability?
Well well well, what do we have here? Could all angry commenters read this persons post? It took a matter of 2 hours to find a fellow male abused by the system set up by this poor court system and over zealous feminist! Can you see the abuse going on here and say we don't need reform and accountability?
Of course, it's going to be somehow different and okay somehow. It makes me sick, personally.
Well well well, what do we have here? Could all angry commenters read this persons post? It took a matter of 2 hours to find a fellow male abused by the system set up by this poor court system and over zealous feminist! Can you see the abuse going on here and say we don't need reform and accountability?
There are tax cheaters, school cheaters, welfare cheaters.....that does not mean you dismantle the whole system, as you want to do.
In the story you are referring to, the same thing could have happened if it was a stay at home dad who hoarded the child support money instead of paying the bills.
As I have said before, men AND WOMEN both pay child support when they are the non custodial parent.
I asked before.....would you rather have custody or pay child support?
Men also can't force a woman NOT to have an abortion. What if he DOES want to be a father? Isn't the child just as much his as it is the mother's?
The man is not the one who has to risk carrying a pregnancy, not his body, not his choice.
If it were the other way around and men were the ones who got pregnant, do you think they would want the woman to make that choice for them?
If the man got pregnant, the law would be the same, his body, his choice.
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