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Not enough information to say about your body though...
oh well, it always gets back to that. enough said. read my previous posts about my lil ole bod. thanks for the guidance on my soul though. sure helps to have a satisfied soul on a cold winter night.
1. Not even death can save you from getting fleeced by your ex-wife.
2. Guys like your buddy who received a lesson on how marriage/divorce works, prefer a girlfriend & kids to marriage & kids.
3. Women are the ones who primarily benefit from a marriage contract.
He could saved all this hassle by NOT getting married in the first place. His 3 kids would've each gotten their FAIR SHARE when he died. Ex-wives and "fair share" don't exist togther.
Weren't you the one who said finances have nothing to do with marriage? And now you say:
"Romantic, religious, moral, whatever other arguments aside, it boils down to economics and legal standing in a worst case scenario and providing for one's loved ones."
1. Yes, that's true, especially with a battle-ax ex. I'll never forget the image of her in a full length mink coat and Chanel glasses at the cemetery, as she appeared to smirk, not be overcome by grief.
2. Not true. The second relationship was complex for both parties. And, they were getting married as everything was arranged for about a month after the accident. The second time around was very different from the first, but that's the relationship that came out on the short end of the stick.
3. You are missing the point. The second house had nothing to do with the first family, yet they got part of the proceeds.
Yes, I did say that, from the perspective that you do not evaluate a marriage the same way that you do a financial arrangement, but when you have children, you need to put your own selfish desires out the window, since children should come first. For protections for the family, you need the documentation and assurances that are enforceable when you are living with someone and a child.
it's nice to get a compliment, it doesn't happen enough. I can also relate to certain women acknowledging your presence with some kind of glance or wink or whatever. It doesn't happen frequently with me much but when it does i always remember when or where it was and it always seems to be either latina, black or Asian women who do it (I am caucasian and these days look at more Asians, black and latinas than caucasians).
it's nice to get a compliment, it doesn't happen enough. I can also relate to certain women acknowledging your presence with some kind of glance or wink or whatever. It doesn't happen frequently with me much but when it does i always remember when or where it was and it always seems to be either latina, black or Asian women who do it (I am caucasian and these days look at more Asians, black and latinas than caucasians).
Hey, if the girls wink at you, just wink right on back. You said that it's coming from Asian, black, Latina women and that you look at them too. So there seems to be a mutual interest there!
I tell you, rlrl, most times I'm in the mirror winking back at myself. I was just bragging about various women looking at me. They only look if I'm blocking their path at the traffic lights.
You're a lucky fella. Keep winking and blinking, then start whispering and talking, and who knows what's next?
have the experience of a certain personality type that's attracted to you but you just couldn't return the feeling at all? This happened to me at least twice at the job with a domineering, self centered type of woman (kind of histrionic), kind of superficially charming but you can sense a mountainous volcano of rage or contempt beneath it? It seems I could have my pick of these types (perhaps because I'm a somewhat passive type on the surface but I could be aggressive and take charge in certain situations that I'm sure about) but I just have no interest in these girls, not even for "just friends"
And of course the ones who are more mild mannered(nothing gets me going like a mild mannered woman) and attractive are either all taken or just not interested in me
Just a 'heads up.' Please keep this thread ON TOPIC. Off topic posts will be deleted. Thanks.
apologies. thought we were on topic
rlrl, a NY man, 25-35, seeking a serious relationship.jinglebell, a woman ,giving her advice to a ny man, 25-35.
sorry if we're off topic.
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only if you are not a ghost...
