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Old 01-17-2020, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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I'd love to hear her side of it. I guarantee it's much different. I don't know why OP is being so weird about all this.

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Old 01-17-2020, 10:45 AM
 
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She just tried to call me on her lunch break. Ph was in my pocket and when I took it out it hung up on her. If she calls back I'm letting it go to vm.


How am I being weird? Does your neighbor contact you every other day?
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Old 01-17-2020, 10:47 AM
 
Location: La Mesa Aka The Table
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Just Sleep with her already. If you're bad enough in the sack she will quit texting you, i promise
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Old 01-17-2020, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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She just tried to call me on her lunch break. Ph was in my pocket and when I took it out it hung up on her. If she calls back I'm letting it go to vm.


How am I being weird? Does your neighbor contact you every other day?
You're being weird here, so I'm assuming it happens with your everyday life outside of the forums. You keep telling us the texts etc. but you are so passive about it and seem to enjoy it but say how you are not leading her on or anything. Just tell her already that she is driving you nuts or stop complaining about it.
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Old 01-17-2020, 11:25 AM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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She just tried to call me on her lunch break. Ph was in my pocket and when I took it out it hung up on her. If she calls back I'm letting it go to vm.


How am I being weird? Does your neighbor contact you every other day?
Well yours does...at least the wife half. And you are doing nothing about it.
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Old 01-17-2020, 12:08 PM
 
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She just tried to call me on her lunch break. Ph was in my pocket and when I took it out it hung up on her. If she calls back I'm letting it go to vm.

How am I being weird? Does your neighbor contact you every other day?

You're being weird by giving us a call by call, text by text running account here. Looking for advice to handle something that is a non-issue with a normal person. You're turning this into a big drama where there needs to be none. We all have issues in our lives but we don't have to make ourselves into a 24/7 online forum reality show.

Did I mention how this annoying tech-illiterate co-worker asked me to call him yesterday about a problem he's having, when I've made it clear 1000 times before he needs to email it so I can have a record, prioritize it, categorize it, and resolve it? Should I keep everyone up to date if he calls this afternoon or tell you what the problem was?


Just a hunch... do you have Asperberger's?
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Old 01-17-2020, 12:32 PM
 
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She just tried to call me on her lunch break. Ph was in my pocket and when I took it out it hung up on her. If she calls back I'm letting it go to vm.


How am I being weird? Does your neighbor contact you every other day?
Because you’re making a big issue over a situation you’ve encouraged and keep posting each call or text but don’t do anything about it

Block her number
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Old 01-17-2020, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Rochester NY
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Is she hot?
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Old 01-17-2020, 04:59 PM
 
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Just Sleep with her already. If you're bad enough in the sack she will quit texting you, i promise

There ya go!

Does she have a full-time job? It sounds like she has too much time on her hands.

Do you live in a really boring place? I read this thread yesterday because I didn’t want to deal with the snow, and I can’t believe it’s still going! (The thread, not the snow).

Your other choices other than what hitman said, are confrontation regarding all of this with the boyfriend/companion present so there are no questions about intention, or ghosting her. Maybe you’ll have to change your phone number, block her, whatever.

BTW, it isn’t hard to fix or replace a zipper, and if she can’t do it, the local dry cleaners can.
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Old 01-18-2020, 06:36 PM
 
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I dont know how well you know the boyfriend...it sounds like not very well...but you may not know how he is going to react one day with his girlfriend contacting you all the time. People nowadays.... who knows? This could end up in a bad situation, you just dont know. Stop answering her calls, stop answering her texts...just stop. Just because she calls and texts doesnt compell you to answer. There is absolutely nothing in this world that she has to talk to you about that she can't get from her boyfriend or someone else.
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