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It kinda makes logical sense to me that if she enjoyed chatting with you on the walks that, when you stop walking and chatting with her, she'd pick another way to chat with you. That's how friendship/acquaintance-ship work, yeah?
Unless she is texting 10 times a day (not in one conversation) or saying inappropriate things, what's the big deal? Also, as long as her partner knows about you -- have you ever met or been friendly with him? But really, people are allowed to have friends. I'm not one of those odd people who think you can never be friendly with the opposite sex.
The OP has indicated nothing inappropriate at all.
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor. I don't reply to her texts. I answer her calls to be a friendly neighbor. She makes friends with anyone who will listen to her talk. He bf is the opposite and likes to stay to himself. He knows this about her. I just started to make friends with another lady on a nearby street I know from the hoa.
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor.
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor. I don't reply to her texts. I answer her calls to be a friendly neighbor. She makes friends with anyone who will listen to her talk. He bf is the opposite and likes to stay to himself. He knows this about her. I just started to make friends with another lady on a nearby street I know from the hoa.
It sounds like she’s an extrovert and her boyfriend is an introvert. It doesn’t mean you have to answer all her texts or calls, or if you do answer her texts, you can answer them slowly.
She is a friend who wants more, but you want less. You just need to moderate the contact. I bet she’d bring you chicken soup if you were sick, but you don’t want a blow by blow of her life, or to know the business of all your neighbors, then just don’t answer the phone or texts unless you want to.
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor. I don't reply to her texts. I answer her calls to be a friendly neighbor. She makes friends with anyone who will listen to her talk. He bf is the opposite and likes to stay to himself. He knows this about her. I just started to make friends with another lady on a nearby street I know from the hoa.
It sounds like you're okay with this and unwilling to change your behavior to stop it - so what is this thread really about?
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor. I don't reply to her texts. I answer her calls to be a friendly neighbor. She makes friends with anyone who will listen to her talk. He bf is the opposite and likes to stay to himself. He knows this about her. I just started to make friends with another lady on a nearby street I know from the hoa.
So specifically what do you want to between you and your female neighbor?
Right. The walks started a friendship. She called a 2nd time later today. That call was about a neighbor, her house, her bf's mom, just about every current detail in her life, etc etc. Then she texted me after that with an update on the neighbor. I don't reply to her texts. I answer her calls to be a friendly neighbor. She makes friends with anyone who will listen to her talk. He bf is the opposite and likes to stay to himself. He knows this about her. I just started to make friends with another lady on a nearby street I know from the hoa.
So, specifically what do you want to happen between you and your female neighbor?
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