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Old 07-20-2014, 10:31 PM
 
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What do you feel is objectionable to them about your looks?
I'm ugly. Eyebrows ugly. Eyes don't match. Acne scars. Look rag tag. Don't get a good haircut. Don't shave well. Don't wear good clothes. Out of shape & fat but they hated me when I was thin and wore better clothes too.

I refuse to change any of that.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:32 PM
 
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Because I know they'd hate me & reject me even if I changed the things I can change. I just know it.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:33 PM
 
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Because I know they'd hate me & reject me even if I changed the things I can change. I just know it.
Well, if you haven't tried to change anything, you're only guessing, right?
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:38 PM
 
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Well, if you haven't tried to change anything, you're only guessing, right?
Why should I change myself for their benefit, when I would accept millions of American women exactly as they are?
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:40 PM
 
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Why should I change myself for their benefit, when I would accept millions of American women exactly as they are?
I guess your answer is, "no thank you!" Your problem is solved. You want the situation to stay exactly as it is.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:43 PM
 
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I guess your answer is, "no thank you!" Your problem is solved. You want the situation to stay exactly as it is.
My problem is not solved. I don't get to have any sex in a loving relationship. Don't tell me to go to a prostitute, that's illegal and empty.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:44 PM
 
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My problem is not solved. I don't get to have any sex in a loving relationship. Don't tell me to go to a prostitute, that's illegal and empty.
But it is solved! You opted to keep the situation exactly as it is! It's your decision, not someone else's, so it's all good.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:46 PM
 
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But it is solved! You opted to keep the situation exactly as it is! It's your decision, not someone else's, so it's all good.
I tell you, I would accept many women exactly as they are. Why am I not given the same courtesy by any of these women?
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:47 PM
 
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I tell you, I would accept many women exactly as they are. Why am I not given the same courtesy by any of these women?
I gave you a suggestion, but you don't care to try it, so my answer is: dunno! Keep doing what you're doing. At least you know what the result is. That's consistent and secure.
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Old 07-20-2014, 10:49 PM
 
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I gave you a suggestion, but you don't care to try it, so my answer is: dunno! Keep doing what you're doing. At least you know what the result is. That's consistent and secure.
What exactly was your suggestion? Plastic surgery? I refuse to do that. If I were a woman, you would congratulate me for rejecting that, not told that I deserve to be alone.
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