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Old 06-21-2010, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Baby chick, why are you still living with your ex in the same household? Sorry but frankly there are a lot of red flags going on with you as much as him.
Why is that a 'red flag'?

I live with this man because my mother told me I had to find someplace new to live seven months ago, and with little savings I had few options. I chose to move in with someone I know. Now I live and work in an area that you have to have a car to get around in, and I do not know how to drive. I actually would love to move out, but it isn't feasible at the moment.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Vancouver, B.C., Canada
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Why is that a 'red flag'?

I live with this man because my mother told me I had to find someplace new to live seven months ago, and with little savings I had few options. I chose to move in with someone I know. Now I live and work in an area that you have to have a car to get around in, and I do not know how to drive. I actually would love to move out, but it isn't feasible at the moment.
hmm does you Ex have a GF and would you be mad if he brought a girl home?
living with an ex is kinda weird while you are dating one of his friends and co-workers while sharing a place together I find that a little messed up.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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hmm does you Ex have a GF and would you be mad if he brought a girl home?
living with an ex is kinda weird while you are dating one of his friends and co-workers I find that a little messed up
No he does not have a gf and I would not be mad if he brought a girl home, until recently I wasn't allowed to bring guys home, but neither of us bring people home in general so it really isn't an issue.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:32 PM
 
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Why is that a 'red flag'?
It is a red flag because it's an unusual situation, and not a positive one.

I totally agree with GT above.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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living with an ex is kinda weird while you are dating one of his friends and co-workers while sharing a place together I find that a little messed up.
How is it 'messed up' when everyone is aware of the situation?
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Vancouver, B.C., Canada
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No he does not have a gf and I would not be mad if he brought a girl home, until recently I wasn't allowed to bring guys home, but neither of us bring people home in general so it really isn't an issue.
well this what I get from that he has no GF and you were not allowed to bring home guys your dating. I think he still in the back of his mind he has feelings for you and by having a place together he has control over you and who you see in hopes that you will break up with who ever and go back to him.

to me it is just a weird situation trust me if a girl I was dating said she lived with her Ex BF that would be a huge red flag and really put me off of her. I mean would you want to go hang out with your Bf ex-girlfriend?
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:37 PM
 
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I live with this man because my mother told me I had to find someplace new to live seven months ago, and with little savings I had few options. I chose to move in with someone I know. Now I live and work in an area that you have to have a car to get around in, and I do not know how to drive. I actually would love to move out, but it isn't feasible at the moment.
So seven months ago you were living with your mom? You actually do have options. You could start by partying once a month.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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So seven months ago you were living with your mom? You actually do have options. You could start by partying once a month.
How would that affect my living situation?
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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to me it is just a weird situation trust me if a girl I was dating said she lived with her Ex BF that would be a huge red flag and really put me off of her.
Well, I'm glad I met a guy who feels differently.
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Old 06-21-2010, 01:42 PM
 
Location: Vancouver, B.C., Canada
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How would that affect my living situation?
you could save money to find a place of your own if you did not party all the time booze is expensvie and living with you Ex is really odd to say the least esp since from your other threads he is 15 years older and retired and you are dating one of his co-workers that you say is abusive, controlling and has a drinking problem.
you are putting yourself in some really bad situations IMO
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