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Well, that's true. I think she secretly hoped we will say that he is a keeper.
It just drives me INSANE when I see a woman doing that. I would not be surprised if this guy has hit women b4. Drinking all the time, having to know where she is 24/7...not good.
First month, we are all on our best behavior; everyone deteriorates from there because no one is perfect and eventually our hand gets shown. Month 1 this guy is a bossy, controlling drunk? I shudder to think what month 3 or 4 will bring.
Well, that's true. I think she secretly hoped we will say that he is a keeper.
Yes. How many women would love to hear: "Don't worry about the too much drinking.... all a heavy-drinker has to do is meet the right woman and he'll reform."
The reason she addressed my comment because it was regarding hers and not the Firemans behavior. Posts attacking the guy as being in the wrong will not bother her as much as ones possibly suggesting that she may be at fault by lacking maturity. Critical thinking must always keep in mind that we have only one side to a Story from a poster. Thus you need to read between the lines to get the larger picture.
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The intent of my question was to get the OP to think about her responses, and/or lack of them. Not because I had a genuine question myself.
Should I defer to his judgment or rely on my ex's judgment since he's apparently known him for longer than I have?
What does your ex say about him?
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