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Old 02-06-2011, 10:27 PM
 
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It's your hyper-sensitive reaction that I find to be child-like. I am literally busting a gut because this is so funny.

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Right. Having friends is so immature.

Just because you don't have friends doesn't mean I shouldn't.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:28 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Haha. Yes, I am a woman.
lol, right, so in this case, she probably should have called one of her girlfriends!
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:29 PM
 
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well I told him about my past and I told him I like him but I just need more time to this time avoid making the same mistake as I did in the past. Plus, there are several other reasons I was hesitant about being in an "exclusive relationship" with him. 1) one day I googled his name and his name came up on a two dating websites (and it showed he had been recently online--after he met me). I asked him about it and he said he got on to delete his accounts. 2) I invited him twice to go hang out with my friends, the first time he said his dog was sick and he had to stay home, the second time he said he had lost his dog and didn't want to go. 3) he never even asked me to go with him when he hangs out with his friends, and when he hangs out with his "friends", he never picks up his phone. I just thought there was something weird about this guy, and I want to take some time to figure out what kind of person he is.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:30 PM
 
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lol, right, so in this case, she probably should have called one of her girlfriends!
No kidding. I guess if you need something done, you gotta leave it to a woman.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:31 PM
 
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Let's not play a gender war here. She could have called one of her guy friends or a neighbor: since her lazy boyfriend didn't want to help out.

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No kidding. I guess if you need something done, you gotta leave it to a woman.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:32 PM
 
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well I told him about my past and I told him I like him but I just need more time to this time avoid making the same mistake as I did in the past. Plus, there are several other reasons I was hesitant about being in an "exclusive relationship" with him. 1) one day I googled his name and his name came up on a two dating websites (and it showed he had been recently online--after he met me). I asked him about it and he said he got on to delete his accounts. 2) I invited him twice to go hang out with my friends, the first time he said his dog was sick and he had to stay home, the second time he said he had lost his dog and didn't want to go. 3) he never even asked me to go with him when he hangs out with his friends, and when he hangs out with his "friends", he never picks up his phone. I just thought there was something weird about this guy, and I want to take some time to figure out what kind of person he is.
Why are you checking up on him while he's with his friends? I don't answer my phone period when I'm with anyone.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:32 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Congratulations on waiting until you know him better before you became exclusive with him! That was smart. And it's what dating is suppose to be about. Now that you have learned a lot more about what type of guy he is, you are in a better position to make an informed decision about becoming more serious.

I hope you have other, better men in your dating rotation, because if you're looking for a man who is kind, caring, and crazy about you, I don't think this is the man for you.

Date others.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:33 PM
 
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well I told him about my past and I told him I like him but I just need more time to this time avoid making the same mistake as I did in the past. Plus, there are several other reasons I was hesitant about being in an "exclusive relationship" with him. 1) one day I googled his name and his name came up on a two dating websites (and it showed he had been recently online--after he met me). I asked him about it and he said he got on to delete his accounts. 2) I invited him twice to go hang out with my friends, the first time he said his dog was sick and he had to stay home, the second time he said he had lost his dog and didn't want to go. 3) he never even asked me to go with him when he hangs out with his friends, and when he hangs out with his "friends", he never picks up his phone. I just thought there was something weird about this guy, and I want to take some time to figure out what kind of person he is.
I think you're doing right in being cautious. There's something sketchy about him.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:33 PM
 
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I think she did the right thing, too.

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Congratulations on waiting until you know him better before you became exclusive with him! That was smart. And it's what dating is suppose to be about. Now that you have learned a lot more about what type of guy he is, you are in a better position to make an informed decision about becoming more serious.

I hope you have other, better men in your dating rotation, because if you're looking for a man who is kind, caring, and crazy about you, I don't think this is the man for you.

Date others.
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Old 02-06-2011, 10:34 PM
 
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Let's not play a gender war here. She could have called one of her guy friends or a neighbor: since her lazy boyfriend didn't want to help out.
Yes, that's true. I wasn't being serious, hence the .
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