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I have no idea what crying has to do with being strong. They are totally separate. Being able to be tough when threatened has nothing to do with crying when you're sad. It's like saying men shouldn't laugh because they have to be strong - It makes no sense.
Crying means you've lost control of your emotions. Losing control of your emotions means you're no longer able to think or act logically or rationally. You've been defeated by your own mind.
Hence, a sign of weakness, however temporary.
DISCLAIMER:
This way of thinking does not apply in the following situations:
Crying means you've lost control of your emotions. Losing control of your emotions means you're no longer able to think or act logically or rationally. You've been defeated by your own mind.
Hence, a sign of weakness, however temporary.
DISCLAIMER:
This way of thinking does not apply in the following situations:
Loss of a loved one
Loss of a pet
Loss of innocence
Loss of winning PowerBall ticket
Loss of hair
Anger would qualify as losing control of your emotions, and men show that regularly.
I've got "teary-eyed" in front of my wife on different occasions......watching a movie is basically the main one. When a couple can share a box of Kleenix, that is called REAL love!! That's us!!
My Father who is about as macho as you can get is not afraid to be soft on occasions as well. He did manage a very successful career in the Marines and the Diplomatic service having to deal with some pretty hairy situations as well. A hard man if I ever met one.
I have never met you but I would wager that even now at 61 he could give you a run for your money physically and mentally.
He is the essence of masculinity as per the traditional definition but also man enough to be a human being and not give a damn what idiot might think of him. Humanity is not a weakness but a strength. The willow might appear softer than the mighty oak but the willow will bend in a storm where an oak will just break. Toughness is not all about exterior , the core is just as important.
My Father who is about as macho as you can get is not afraid to be soft on occasions as well. He did manage a very successful career in the Marines and the Diplomatic service having to deal with some pretty hairy situations as well. A hard man if I ever met one.
I have never met you but I would wager that even now at 61 he could give you a run for your money physically and mentally.
He is the essence of masculinity as per the traditional definition but also man enough to be a human being and not give a damn what idiot might think of him. Humanity is not a weakness but a strength. The willow might appear softer than the mighty oak but the willow will bend in a storm where an oak will just break. Toughness is not all about exterior , the core is just as important.
Lovely story.
I'm sure he is a terrific person and I would not for a moment discredit him or his service.
But I'm sure that he does not cry at the drop of a hat.
If the woman hates your honest display of emotions, it's a clue that you are with the wrong woman.
On the other hand, if you find yourself doing it frequently, you might want to investigate the reasons why. It is perhaps your other life choices that require a second thought.
If the woman hates your honest display of emotions, it's a clue that you are with the wrong woman.
On the other hand, if you find yourself doing it frequently, you might want to investigate the reasons why. It is perhaps your other life choices that require a second thought.
Exactly.
That's my point.
People, especially men should control their emotions.
How do you feel about Boehner crying?
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