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Old 08-04-2011, 10:52 PM
 
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I think the last post was nebulous indeed other than the Hollywood & Tv part...
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: USA
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I think the last post was nebulous indeed other than the Hollywood & Tv part...

Oh...I should have listed all the men I've dated and their good and bad points, LOL.
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:05 PM
 
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Whew, this is the most surprising post I have ever seen, I mean, most men prefer women who are petite and curvy, there are lots of tall women who have a complex because most men don't approach them or date them, not saying all men are like that, but a lot of men don't approach women who are taller than them, and at 5'10", a woman is very tall even in America. Most tall women would vouch for this, most men would rather go after shorter women than the taller ones, that said, tall women of course don't have anything even remotely as bad as it is for the short men. I find it very surprising that any man would look for a "barbie" who is 5'10" and 120 pounds, I have never met anyone like that atleast, most men I see wouldn't even mind a little flab on the woman as long as she has a good personality while even a little amount of flab on a guy would automatically turn off all the women from him.

Regarding the unemployment thing, I don't know, I just think it's unfortunate for anyone to be unemployed, and that's something not a lot of us can do anything about, that said, I had gone to a party once where I met this woman who was very good looking and talkative, she told me she was unemployed at that time, however, she had a lot of men hitting on her that night, so I thought it's not as bad for women even if they are unemployed as it is for men, a man without a job wouldn't have any woman even approach him casually, let alone anything more, he is a social outcast to the most extent.
You do have a point. Everytime I go out I'm sure to see a fit and skinny guy with an overweight woman. But you hardly see it the other way around. Hell even overweight women don't want to be seen with overweight men.

Us guys do get a bad rep. We're constantly labeled shallow but it couldn't be farther from the truth. We admire and might even fantasize about Megan Fox and Scarlett Johansson but in general we know they are unobtainable. If a girl is hot but has a crappy attitude than most guys will just want hit it and quit it for a lack of a better term. The only guys who would be willing to put up with that crap are losers.
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:14 PM
 
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You do have a point. Everytime I go out I'm sure to see a fit and skinny guy with an overweight woman. But you hardly see it the other way around. Hell even overweight women don't want to be seen with overweight men.

Us guys do get a bad rep. We're constantly labeled shallow but it couldn't be farther from the truth. We admire and might even fantasize about Megan Fox and Scarlett Johansson but in general we know they are unobtainable. If a girl is hot but has a crappy attitude than most guys will just want hit it and quit it for a lack of a better term. The only guys who would be willing to put up with that crap are losers.
Yeah i know Men get a bad rep but from expereince women are proably even more shallow..

Ive seen women break up with Men or not giv him another shot because she didnt liike his shoes or because he wasnt an inch or two more off the ground..

The idea that Men are the vain shallow ones and women arent is hillarious

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Old 08-04-2011, 11:20 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Yeah i know Men get a bad rep but from expereince women are proably even more shallow..

Ive seen women break up with Men or not giv him another shot because she didnt liike his shoes or because he wasnt an inch or tow more off the ground..

The idea that Men are the vain shallow ones and women arent is hillarious
But sweetie, we'll always trade your looks for your wallet.
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:27 PM
 
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Yeah i know Men get a bad rep but from expereince women are proably even more shallow..

Ive seen women break up with Men or not giv him another shot because she didnt liike his shoes or because he wasnt an inch or two more off the ground..

The idea that Men are the vain shallow ones and women arent is hillarious

Gosh, why would a guy want to even date a woman like that in the first place? There are puddles deeper...
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:40 PM
 
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Gosh, why would a guy want to even date a woman like that in the first place?
Most wouldn't...But theyres allot of women like that
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:56 PM
 
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Most wouldn't...But theyres allot of women like that

I think some men just are attracted to the airhead bimbo with a lobotomy type. Maybe they aren't so smart themselves, so they go for the lower IQ, opportunistic types.

Maybe guys who want smarter, saner women should be more assertive about it.
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Old 08-04-2011, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You do have a point. Everytime I go out I'm sure to see a fit and skinny guy with an overweight woman. But you hardly see it the other way around. Hell even overweight women don't want to be seen with overweight men.

Us guys do get a bad rep. We're constantly labeled shallow but it couldn't be farther from the truth. We admire and might even fantasize about Megan Fox and Scarlett Johansson but in general we know they are unobtainable. If a girl is hot but has a crappy attitude than most guys will just want hit it and quit it for a lack of a better term. The only guys who would be willing to put up with that crap are losers.
To be honest with you - most of the women I know are in great shape and work out all the time. Most of their husbands or significant others have a little bit of chub to them. None of the women seem to mind at all. I certainly have never cared if the guys I dated or the man I married had a 6 pack and huge biceps. Personally, I try to keep in good shape but I've never cared about the physique of the men that I've been with.
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Old 08-05-2011, 12:42 AM
 
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To be honest with you - most of the women I know are in great shape and work out all the time. Most of their husbands or significant others have a little bit of chub to them. None of the women seem to mind at all. I certainly have never cared if the guys I dated or the man I married had a 6 pack and huge biceps. Personally, I try to keep in good shape but I've never cared about the physique of the men that I've been with.
Well you might be right. I just don't see the fit women fat guy combo as often as I see the fit guy fat girl combo. Maybe it's the early to mid 20's crowd I hang around.
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