Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Women are attracted to looks, the only difference is we can have what ever we want. After going through all the underware models, gym rats and mr. business suits with great bone structure, ...
you suddenly realize that you are bored and need more encouragment to get naked....like personality, money or good old Soul attraction.
Ive tried it all, as most women secretly have and I can tell you, I get so bored now....I look for mental/social intelligence, emotional maturity, a SPECIAL spark that makes my heart rate go up uniquely. I still care about looks and usually only want to have sex and try the guy out....but I look for more substance than looks now, because alot of hot guys are HORRIBLE in the sack....they are so concerned about looking at their own abs that it begins to feel like we have a camera crew in the room.....So boring/such a turnoff. People in general who are so focused on looks (as many hot guys are), forget how to use their intelligence, passion and charm to make it exciting in the bed. A nice spray tan does not give me cold chills by one touch.
<does a double-take; mouth drops open> Wow...scary...and sad, too...sorry, but I just couldn't help commenting here...
Women are attracted to looks, the only difference is we can have what ever we want. After going through all the underware models, gym rats and mr. business suits with great bone structure, ...
you suddenly realize that you are bored and need more encouragment to get naked....like personality, money or good old Soul attraction.
Ive tried it all, as most women secretly have and I can tell you, I get so bored now....I look for mental/social intelligence, emotional maturity, a SPECIAL spark that makes my heart rate go up uniquely. I still care about looks and usually only want to have sex and try the guy out....but I look for more substance than looks now, because alot of hot guys are HORRIBLE in the sack....they are so concerned about looking at their own abs that it begins to feel like we have a camera crew in the room.....So boring/such a turnoff. People in general who are so focused on looks (as many hot guys are), forget how to use their intelligence, passion and charm to make it exciting in the bed. A nice spray tan does not give me cold chills by one touch.
Quote:
Originally Posted by goodmorning777
@therock.....dam right and I am not ashamed. Women do the same crap men do and then we lie to the men we plan on marrying or to guys who are ridiculous like you and say "been around" like a female with an active single sex life is bad. So stupid.
typical. I'd have less of a problem with the whole flip-flopping thing if people wouldn't try and cover it up. Something tells me you ARE ashamed if you have to lie about it.
my whole argument is that how it is easier for a girl to get a guy than it is for a guy to get a girl
I have to argue with you here because it really does depend.
I was just in on a convo with a group of 5 of my single girlfriends just yesterday about how hard dating is. These are all educated, professionally successful women between the ages of 29 - 31 and all have been single for years. It seems in our area (DC/Baltimore) the dating game is a man's market. Meaning there are more eligible women then men and the men can be picky enough to hold out as long as they want to. Its the men that seem to have the leisure of deciding when they want to get into long-term relationships while the women are waiting, hoping and praying.
I was also single for 3 1/2 years hoping to meet someone special while most guys I met were content playing the field and not settling down with anyone.
I have to argue with you here because it really does depend.
I was just in on a convo with a group of 5 of my single girlfriends just yesterday about how hard dating is. These are all educated, professionally successful women between the ages of 29 - 31 and all have been single for years. It seems in our area (DC/Baltimore) the dating game is a man's market. Meaning there are more eligible women then men and the men can be picky enough to hold out as long as they want to. Its the men that seem to have the leisure of deciding when they want to get into long-term relationships while the women are waiting, hoping and praying.
I was also single for 3 1/2 years hoping to meet someone special while most guys I met were content playing the field and not settling down with anyone.
Its not always how it seems.
You think it's bad in DC? Go to south Florida. I grew up with my pick of the litter. Female/male ratio had to be 3-4:1 easily where I grew up. During the summer, it went to 6-7:1.
so the definition of a successful-man does not just mean he is rich?
No he has to be sucessful at his job and confident in his lifestyle......being rich only adds to the attractivness. Ever seen a butt ugly guy with a hot chick? Know why....it is likely he has money.
Lol...that's because guys (in general) are more superficial...
Whoa now...that's a huge myth. Women are just sneakier about it and will say things like they want a successful man. Lol no...what they mean is they want a man with a good amount of money. Nice try ladies
No he has to be sucessful at his job and confident in his lifestyle......being rich only adds to the attractivness. Ever seen a butt ugly guy with a hot chick? Know why....it is likely he has money.
What if the guy inherited it? Technically that doesn't count as success does it? I always get women on this one lol. Face it...it has nothing to do with success for a lot of women.
He's actually right to a degree he probably just takes it all too far...attractive women do have the easiest time dating. They don't really have to "do" anything...just sort of sit around, look pretty, and cherry pick which guy they like that hits on them. They don't need any type of game at all. I think that is what the OP is noticing. Less attractive women, obese women, or significantly older women don't really have it all that easy.
yeah eventhough 90 percent or more of those guys will be losers, random creepers, at least women have the power to shoe them away
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
typical. I'd have less of a problem with the whole flip-flopping thing if people wouldn't try and cover it up. Something tells me you ARE ashamed if you have to lie about it.
