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It's not a confidence issue, but I understand where you might think that is the case.
But let me put the scene together for you from a man's perspective: once you give me your number without me asking for it, you have now let me know that you want me to f_ck you, and any talk or thinking about dating you or being involved relationship with you will come later after I get laid... but it's highly unlikely now that I know you are a very forward woman and have no problem putting yourself out there when it comes to your sexual needs.
If there are any guys who think I'm over stating this, please post your thoughts.
You are dude, just because a girl asks you out doesn't automatically mean she's going to drop her panties that night. Many girls asks guys out because they want to get to know the guy, not their dick.
It's not a confidence issue, but I understand where you might think that is the case.
But let me put the scene together for you from a man's perspective: once you give me your number without me asking for it, you have now let me know that you want me to f_ck you, and any talk or thinking about dating you or being involved relationship with you will come later after I get laid... but it's highly unlikely now that I know you are a very forward woman and have no problem putting yourself out there when it comes to your sexual needs.
If there are any guys who think I'm over stating this, please post your thoughts.
Thanks for posting.
I am absolutely going to be doing more of giving my number out in social situations if only to weed out men who think they way you do. Great time saver.
I am absolutely going to be doing more of giving my number out in social situations if only to weed out men who think they way you do. Great time saver.
There are websites that let you design your own business card, and they're free. All you pay is shipping. You can make a card that's not necessarily business-related, but has your phone number on it, and maybe some personal characteristics or a joke, or something---some personal P.R., and carry a few to hand out. Easier than fishing for a pen and a napkin in a club or at a park.
I am absolutely going to be doing more of giving my number out in social situations if only to weed out men who think they way you do. Great time saver.
Yeah, right, let me know how that works out for you. And by the way, I know that women, including yourself, are still very affected about appearing, shall we say, loose. Sorry if it's too raw, and I even asked feedback to correct my perception, which I could be mistaken as not widely the case. Don't know till we hear from others.
I always wondered why the guys I seemed to really fall for never initiated contact first. I actually fell for one guy who flat out said he doesn't chase women, he waits for them to do the chasing. What does that say? Is it a sign of being really laidback or lazy? What's that about?
Okay, please cool down all. I'm not calling anyone a prostitute, maybe just saying a women who gives out her number is seen a easy by some guys... maybe most, we'll see.
It's not a confidence issue, but I understand where you might think that is the case.
But let me put the scene together for you from a man's perspective: once you give me your number without me asking for it, you have now let me know that you want me to f_ck you, and any talk or thinking about dating you or being involved relationship with you will come later after I get laid... but it's highly unlikely now that I know you are a very forward woman and have no problem putting yourself out there when it comes to your sexual needs. If the sex doesn't happen soon, the guy will feel like you tricked him into dating you.
If there are any guys who think I'm over stating this, please post your thoughts.
Whoa, what? Just because I approach a guy and I'm interested in him doesn't mean I automatically want to have sex with him. Is this really how men think? That women ONLY want sex if they talk to a guy?
So if I approach a guy, have a nice talk, ask him if he would like to go out sometime and don't sleep with him immediately he's going to think I somehow 'tricked' him into dating me?
Sheesh.... I don't want to have sex with every guy I approach or see.
It's not a confidence issue, but I understand where you might think that is the case.
But let me put the scene together for you from a man's perspective: once you give me your number without me asking for it, you have now let me know that you want me to f_ck you, and any talk or thinking about dating you or being involved relationship with you will come later after I get laid... but it's highly unlikely now that I know you are a very forward woman and have no problem putting yourself out there when it comes to your sexual needs. If the sex doesn't happen soon, the guy will feel like you tricked him into dating you.
If there are any guys who think I'm over stating this, please post your thoughts.
Don't be ridiculous (where do the find these guys??) It only means she enjoyed the conversation or dance with you, and thought it was worth seeing if you two might get along and have anything in common.
Jeez, on one thread we have a guy squawking about women not taking the initiative and not paying for dates, and here we have a guy who assumes just because a woman gives him her number, she's a prostitute. We can't win around here, can we, ladies?
Wait, are you the guy who inspired the "creep" thread?
Whoa, what? Just because I approach a guy and I'm interested in him doesn't mean I automatically want to have sex with him. Is this really how men think? That women ONLY want sex if they talk to a guy?
So if I approach a guy, have a nice talk, ask him if he would like to go out sometime and don't sleep with him immediately he's going to think I somehow 'tricked' him into dating me?
Sheesh.... I don't want to have sex with every guy I approach or see.
Not, it's not approaching and "talking to guy", it's giving him your number when he doesn't ask for it. Your approach just went from a friendly talk to a booty call invite.
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