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Old 10-28-2012, 06:14 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm short, skinny, have no tattoos, and scars all over my head cause I'm an idiot.

What'cha think about that? Huh? Jet?
Magnatomicflux is a Trekkie, Jet. And he's in Ontario, not too far from Boston. In case you were curious.
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yeah but you're always talking about your "huge" boobs.

That's gotta help...... well, IDK, maybe not always the best "help" probably get some men who are only into big breasts.

Never mind...

LOL

It helps me get weird guys who stare at them, or guys that think I'm easy because of them, which I've always found odd.

I don't want a guy that's only attracted to my chest because I plan on getting a reduction in the next few years, so what good would that be?
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I don't want a guy that's only attracted to my chest because I plan on getting a reduction in the next few years, so what good would that be?
No way! But they always say people who get them are happy about it. Not sure I'd go down that route!
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:16 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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It helps me get weird guys who stare at them, or guys that think I'm easy because of them, which I've always found odd.

I don't want a guy that's only attracted to my chest because I plan on getting a reduction in the next few years, so what good would that be?
I don't get the connection with why they would think a woman with big boobs would be automatically "easy".... I guess some people are weird.

Yes, you shouldn't be with a guy just because he liked big boobs.

That is just plain creepy.
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:17 PM
 
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Most of them aren't exactly intelligent, at least where I live.
It depends. I've been bodybuilding for a while and I'm basically a nerd. My best friend enjoys the same things as I do


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Plus, I don't really care if a guy is big or tall. It's definitely not a prerequisite for me so that doesn't really cross my mind.

Well, most guys are going to be very intimidated by a girl who is 4 inches taller and has a bigger frame than him


I think you would have way better luck with the guys who are bigger and taller...the guys who are like 6'3 230 will often times appreciate your figure and your height
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I'm short, skinny, have no tattoos, and scars all over my head cause I'm an idiot.

What'cha think about that? Huh? Jet?
Sounds good to me

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Has anybody seen full body pictures of her? I am willing to bet that she's not even really overweight and looks good


That's fantastic. How can anybody dislike a very intelligent woman? (Assuming she's also nice and not a *****)
I was actually told by a guy that he would love to date me, but couldn't date a woman smarter than he was

And yes, I've posted a full body picture on here before. I am overweight though, I need to drop another 40 lbs or so. I think I carry it well because of my height, but I still need to work on it.
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:19 PM
 
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It helps me get weird guys who stare at them, or guys that think I'm easy because of them, which I've always found odd.

I don't want a guy that's only attracted to my chest because I plan on getting a reduction in the next few years, so what good would that be?

Don't waste thousands of dollars on breast reduction...just lose weight. Your boobs will naturally shrink
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Sounds good to me



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Nice. Makea me blush. Well, here's a pic if you're interested.





lol
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I don't get the connection with why they would think a woman with big boobs would be automatically "easy".... I guess some people are weird.

Yes, you shouldn't be with a guy just because he liked big boobs.

That is just plain creepy.
There are a lot of dummies out there. The boob men (who only approach because you have big boobs) are cousins with the asian fetish boys, the latina fetish boys, the black fetish boys and so on. They also tend to attribute a set of specific attributes to the object of their fetish, and get mad when he/she doesn't live up exactly to their mental picture.

I.E:
  • Women with big breasts are easy (sub tattoos here too)
  • Women with big butts are "freaks" (sub black women here too)
  • Latinas are "hot" "spicy" "exotic" and "adventurous"
  • Asian women are submissive
  • Black men are well-endowed
  • Black women are "dominating"

And the list goes on and on and on.....
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Old 10-28-2012, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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No way! But they always say people who get them are happy about it. Not sure I'd go down that route!
I'm going to try and lose this extra weight and see what happens, but I'm really sick of my boobs. Bras are too expensive, shirts never fit, dresses don't fit right etc. I would probably pay for the surgery in clothing savings alone

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I don't get the connection with why they would think a woman with big boobs would be automatically "easy".... I guess some people are weird.

Yes, you shouldn't be with a guy just because he liked big boobs.

That is just plain creepy.
From what I've been told, they associate larger breasts with women who get fake breasts and show them off (i.e. strippers etc.) so they think big breasts=easy. It's kind of a stretch, really...but I can see where they got it from.

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It depends. I've been bodybuilding for a while and I'm basically a nerd. My best friend enjoys the same things as I do


Well, most guys are going to be very intimidated by a girl who is 4 inches taller and has a bigger frame than him


I think you would have way better luck with the guys who are bigger and taller...the guys who are like 6'3 230 will often times appreciate your figure and your height
Oddly, some of the harshest rejections I've received were from men who were quite a bit taller than me. A guy who was 6'8 told me I was too tall for him (he ended up marrying a woman in the low 5' range) and a guy who was 7'1 told me I was 'too big' for him. I haven't had great luck with taller/bigger men, they all seem to go for the more petite women.
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