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1) Don't dress as if you do all your shopping down at the thrift store.
2) Don't subsist on a diet of Quarter Pounders and Doritos.
3) Don't live with your mother.
4) Don't forget to groom yourself every day.
5) Don't neglect seeing a dentist.
6) Don't lunge at any woman who smiles at you in the same manner that a starving man attacks the buffet at Golden Corral.
7) Don't mention your model airplane collection, your Dungeons and Dragons figurines, or your high score in World Of Warcraft until about your tenth, thirtieth, or fiftieth date respectively.
8) Don't talk about you in the opening stages of knowing her. Talk about her.
9) Don't treat her like she's all that.
10) Don't stare at her boobs.
11) Don't mention your mother and your past girlfriends
12) Don't ask her out as if you're pleading with the banker for an extension on your loan
1. My close are generally from Kohl's and I generally wear slacks and a matching shirt.
2. I maintain a pretty strict diet with regular exercise, so I'm more healthy than most 40 year olds.
3. I own my own house.
4. Grooming: check I do care about my appearance.
5. Dentist: check, although only once per year
6. I control all my lunges, but not necessary because I never notice a woman smiling at me.
7. I don't play any video games (and I don't even joke about my love of Star Trek)
8. My communication skills are really ok, but this is not an issue because I never talk with women who are potential dating partners.
9. Again, not an issue at this time, but helpful advice when dating.
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12. I'm really laid-back and would never beg a lady to go out with me.
#13) be interesting, live a full life and dont make let women validate ur existence
Yes, I completely agree. I have many interests and get to spend time in other countries every year, so I'm not always sulking. I do appreciate that my life is not very stressful.
Well, you'd think. But that list is a distillation of all the problems I've seen on these threads over the years. Because if he's some overweight schlub who wears not just plaid but brown plaid all the time, has his hair cut as if somebody popped a colander on his head and began snipping, and babbles on and on about nonsensical crap that doesn't matter a hill of beans to a woman, then he could talk to 10,000 women a day and not get anywhere.
From what I've seen IRL, most guys that complain about not getting girls aren't that extreme. They're usually just normal guys that either don't approach, don't make a move, get too emotional about things, or keep doing the same wrong thing over and over again.
1. My close are generally from Kohl's and I generally wear slacks and a matching shirt.
2. I maintain a pretty strict diet with regular exercise, so I'm more healthy than most 40 year olds.
3. I own my own house.
4. Grooming: check I do care about my appearance.
5. Dentist: check, although only once per year
6. I control all my lunges, but not necessary because I never notice a woman smiling at me.
7. I don't play any video games (and I don't even joke about my love of Star Trek)
8. My communication skills are really ok, but this is not an issue because I never talk with women who are potential dating partners.
9. Again, not an issue at this time, but helpful advice when dating.
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12. I'm really laid-back and would never beg a lady to go out with me.
I do appreciate your message.
From your description, you sound like a normal, functioning human being that is able to interact with other humans.
Focus on the five points that I listed and you'll be fine.
From what I've seen IRL, most guys that complain about not getting girls aren't that extreme. They're usually just normal guys that either don't approach, don't make a move, get too emotional about things, or keep doing the same wrong thing over and over again.
Exactly this is me. I'm always polite and clean and good hygiene. Anytime I find a girl I'm remotely interested in, she has a boyfriend. I don't like the idea of approaching a pretty woman in the grocery store. Might get slapped for being creepy?
1. My close are generally from Kohl's and I generally wear slacks and a matching shirt.
2. I maintain a pretty strict diet with regular exercise, so I'm more healthy than most 40 year olds.
3. I own my own house.
4. Grooming: check I do care about my appearance.
5. Dentist: check, although only once per year
6. I control all my lunges, but not necessary because I never notice a woman smiling at me.
7. I don't play any video games (and I don't even joke about my love of Star Trek) 8. My communication skills are really ok, but this is not an issue because I never talk with women who are potential dating partners. 9. Again, not an issue at this time, but helpful advice when dating.
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12. I'm really laid-back and would never beg a lady to go out with me.
I think cpg's tone is condescending, but his words are on point. OP, pretty much follow this and you'll be golden. Opportunities abound... you are surrounded by wonderful women who would appreciate some fun and appropriately proportinial attention. (Don't smother women you just met, just flirt a bit.) There's no need to pine for the college girl. Instead, come up with some fun things to do with friends or by yourself, do them, and keep an eye out for women who might enjoy an invite to come with.
Thanks.
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