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Old 04-03-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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Omg, such desperation is so pathetic. I agree with liberty, you're really pushing the trolling boundaries with such stupidity.
This^^.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:09 PM
 
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Anyway I talked to him tonight and my fears are unfounded.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:10 PM
 
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This man isn't interested and isnt going to marry you. Accept it and move on! Also lower your ridiculous standards.
My standards are far from ridiculous. I am a moral person and not interested in dating a man without morals. So now I won't lower them.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:12 PM
 
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Don't be silly. I know a lot of women who got married in their 40s for the first time. I don't mean to sound like a biotch, just want to give you some positive encouragement here.
My ex's sister married a dude looks like George Clooney when she was exactly 40 years old. She was short, only 5 feet, average to below average looking. (My ex is hot though ) She has a master degree just like you. She has never been married, this is her first marriage.

She even got pregnant at age of 42 (then she got a miscarriage) This is her husband's second marriage, he was a childless divorced man at the time he married her. I heard from my ex that he makes at least 300K/year. He's handsome too. Honestly, I have no ideas what he sees in her besides her great personality I guess. (Like I said, I don't want to sound like a biotch, I am only telling the truth here. My ex sister has no boobs, no ass, no curves. She is short, tiny, skinny, occasionally bitchy, but I love her personality. She is a decent person.) She considers herself as way above average intellectually because she has a master degree.

Hang in there. if the taco man does not work out, there will be another person waiting for you in the future.
Thanks. Yeah I get scared and I really shouldn't. I know there are other people but yes it is scary. You don't sound mean at all about her, just being honest.I will see unattractive people with handsome people and wonder why myself.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:14 PM
 
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Egh you could marry yourself depending on where you live.

Perhaps before you think it's terrifying that you may not marry anyone browse around some studies of heterosexual marriage and see how gals tend to be happier when divorced, happiest when single, and least happy when married As well as how commonplace it is for gals to be unhappy in their marriage, regret marrying, and sexually dissatisfied. In a heterosexual marriage as a gal you're likely to be at quite a disadvantage what with probably generally getting less orgasms and pleasure than him, often having unwanted sex on his demand, and working and coming home to work ala doing most of the household/childcare duties while he considers his less than occasional help to be some grand praiseworthy task.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:15 PM
 
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The reason that most of us will not go easy on her is because she doesn't go easy on anyone else. She's hateful towards groups of people and ridicules them.
Of course I am hateful towards certain people, mainly because they are hateful towards me. I despise men with kids, especially by multiple women because they bother me on dating sites.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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Egh you could marry yourself depending on where you live.

Perhaps before you think it's terrifying that you may not marry anyone browse around some studies of heterosexual marriage and see how gals tend to be happier when divorced, happiest when single, and least happy when married As well as how commonplace it is for gals to be unhappy in their marriage, regret marrying, and sexually dissatisfied. In a heterosexual marriage as a gal you're likely to be at quite a disadvantage what with probably generally getting less orgasms and pleasure than him, often having unwanted sex on his demand, and working and coming home to work ala doing most of the household/childcare duties while he considers his less than occasional help to be some grand praiseworthy task.
I would not marry a man who expected me to do most of the cooking and cleaning, I would either leave it or make him do his fair share.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Of course I am hateful towards certain people, mainly because they are hateful towards me. I despise men with kids, especially by multiple women because they bother me on dating sites.
No - you are HATEFUL toward them because they are INTERESTED in you.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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Of course I am hateful towards certain people, mainly because they are hateful towards me. I despise men with kids, especially by multiple women because they bother me on dating sites.
I don't know why you need to despise them just because they look you up on dating sites. You're on the sites too and they're looking for dates.
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Old 04-03-2013, 09:17 PM
 
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Why the obsession with Taco Man? A few months ago you declared you'd be married by Christmas, yet it seems he doesn't give you the time of day. You're full of excuses about time, his shyness (disinterest?) this mama's boy, living at home, selling tacos out of his garage. Half the time I wonder if you're just a really good storytelling troll, writing a novel, or if this is who you are and maybe you need medication. I don't mean to offend but you really don't come across well at all. Since like attracts like, I really wonder about you, if he is the best you can hope to attract.
He owns a store, doesn't sell tacos (he wanted to though).
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