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how about instead of looking at a woman as a piece of tail, try looking at her like someone you would WANT to get to know, and not for sex. too many guys look at women and only want sex from them because they want to add another notch to their bedpost, so they can brag to their buddies, "dude i got another one last night you should have seen her!" to which their buddies reply, " cool man how many does that make this week?".
stop dehumanizing women, realize that they are people also and have their own feelings, dreams, and goals in life, and that they also want someone to love them.
perhaps you have to be interesting to have women interested in you. most people like pleasant conversation, and that is the forerunner to figuring out if you are just being friendly, or if there is some interest there. you have to start somewhere with strangers, you cant just expect them to decide to fall into your bed right when they meet you, it rarely works that way.
think about what you REALLY want from anyone, male or female, and then go after that. and usually what you REALLY want is someone who listens to you, and who can make good conversation with you, and someone you want to listen to yourself. you also want someone who can be a good friend/companion for a long time.
you also want someone who is honest with you. only then can you develop a relationship that is worth having. in order to develop these kinds of relationships, you have to go one step at a time, and not force the issue. you have to develop a trust between you and a potential mate, and again that takes time. unfortunately most of you guys are not willing to put in the time it takes to get where you truly want to get. you expect women to just decide you are the one, and have them profess their undying love and devotion to you after the first date, and jump into bed with you anytime you want them to, and the go away until you are ready for sex again.
well it doesnt work that way, you need to take the time and make the effort, otherwise you will never get where you want to be.
just want to make sure I understand what you said there, so basically i have to take the time to think and decide what are the qualities and traits I want in a girlfriend?
73 pages, couldn't read them all, but I answer based on the topic question:
Guys stare if they think the girl is cute (or she is pretty in his eyes)
He might not approach due to the fact he doesn't know her, he thinks she might be taken already. Or maybe he thinks she doesn't find him attractive, it the fear or rejection. Or if he approach her, her boyfriend will appeard and smack him, LOL!
Or the man himself is unavailable, but he find the girl beautiful so he looks.
I don't know about men, but I find it to be extremely difficult to approach someone whom I do not know. They might think you got mental issue if you hit on them when you don't know them. Well, except "pervert", those "pervert" guys will hit on any girls, any age, anywhere, anytime. That is pervert guy though, a decent guy will take cautious approach a girl they don't know.
just want to make sure I understand what you said there, so basically i have to take the time to think and decide what are the qualities and traits I want in a girlfriend?
for a start. but it goes beyond that, you need to develop a relationship over time. you need to figure a way to get the girl interested in you, otherwise any contact you have with her is her just being friendly, and you dont get anywhere with her.
if you can make her laugh, or if you have interesting stories to tell her, or if you have a mutual interest, you can swing her interest towards you.
for a start. but it goes beyond that, you need to develop a relationship over time. you need to figure a way to get the girl interested in you, otherwise any contact you have with her is her just being friendly, and you dont get anywhere with her.
if you can make her laugh, or if you have interesting stories to tell her, or if you have a mutual interest, you can swing her interest towards you.
Yup, and then the person ends up in the dreaded friend zone by attempting to develop a relationship over time.
I have tried that in the past and ended up nowhere..
Yup, and then the person ends up in the dreaded friend zone by attempting to develop a relationship over time.
I have tried that in the past and ended up nowhere..
i work that line all the time, and i have good success with it. patience my friend, patience. you cant just date a woman a few times and expect her to jump into bed with you. you have to first gain her trust, that takes time with a lot of women. but if you are patient, and you can continue to tickle the fancy of the ladies, your patience will pay off.
i work that line all the time, and i have good success with it. patience my friend, patience. you cant just date a woman a few times and expect her to jump into bed with you. you have to first gain her trust, that takes time with a lot of women. but if you are patient, and you can continue to tickle the fancy of the ladies, your patience will pay off.
Women all the time hop into bed with guys they're highly attracted to.
I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof? I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
Smile at them! That's the invitation for them to come talk to you.
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I could tell some stories from when he was in my part of the world, but won't as don't want to be banned 
