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Old 05-28-2013, 11:11 AM
 
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Why do women call men who sleep around studs though?
I call them man-whores or baby-daddies.

 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:13 AM
 
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Damn, don't you think that's kind of uneven?
Don't you think it's kind of crazy that many men don't have any expectation other than attractiveness, and then complain about the quality of woman they're with, when they didn't care about what kind of woman she was, only how she looked?
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:15 AM
 
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I call them man-whores or baby-daddies.
If you call them that, then why does the stud/**** double standard still exist?

I know why, but it would seriously be easier if women started to talk **** about men being studs the way men talk about women being sluts.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:15 AM
 
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Why do women call men who sleep around studs though?
Women don't call them studs. Other guys call them studs! Women call them "sleazes", and other derogatory terms.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:16 AM
 
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If you call them that, then why does the stud/**** double standard still exist?

I know why, but it would seriously be easier if women started to talk **** about men being studs the way men talk about women being sluts.
There is less stigma with a man who sleeps around...that's, unfortunately, the way it is. What I don't understand are men, who get a woman to participate in an sexual activity and then turn around and label the woman who did it with them. It's like you were a willing participant, so that makes you a male *****.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:16 AM
 
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If you call them that, then why does the stud/**** double standard still exist?
Because men perpetuate it, and because the English language hasn't adapted yet, and come up with an equivalent term for men to the derogatory terms thrown at women.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:17 AM
 
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Don't you think it's kind of crazy that many men don't have any expectation other than attractiveness, and then complain about the quality of woman they're with, when they didn't care about what kind of woman she was, only how she looked?
Eh, it's human nature to complain about stuff and not do anything about it.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:18 AM
 
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Women don't call them studs. Other guys call them studs! Women call them "sleazes", and other derogatory terms.
"Male *****"..."disgusting"...other names "filthy pig" etc.
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:20 AM
 
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There is less stigma with a man who sleeps around...that's, unfortunately, the way it is. What I don't understand are men, who get a woman to participate in an sexual activity and then turn around and label the woman who did it with them. It's like you were a willing participant, so that makes you a male *****.
I like the way Jet Jockey puts this. When she observes men saying horrible things about a woman they just "dated" (euphemism), she notes, "um, but...you were there, too, right?"
 
Old 05-28-2013, 11:22 AM
 
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"Male *****"..."disgusting"...other names "filthy pig" etc.
...And all women have to do is actually talk **** about men who sleep around and use them, the same way men talk **** about women.
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