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Old 06-05-2013, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Toronto
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And now the dismissiveness, right on cue.

Look, the whole "race against time" bit in your first post betrays your "data collecting" lie.

You can continue reading selectively or you can open your mind to the possibility that "ur doing it wrong."

That's not the worst possibility in the world. What you've been doing obviously isn't working.
Cinderella isn't interested in reality. You're wasting your time.
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Old 06-05-2013, 11:37 AM
 
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You are just, like, making stuff up. I did not have sex with "bad boys through out my 20s". I was in serious, monogamous relationships with good guys who just happened to not work out. You act like I deserve to not settle down with someone because my prior relationships did not work out, which really makes no sense to me.
I guess the short of my rant is, dont take advantage of some poor tool so you can have a kid. When you pick someone give them all the sex and attention you gave the same guys in your 20's. Dont make some guy suffer. I know alot of guys have no self respect so its like shooting baby ducks in a bucket but do the right thing.
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Old 06-05-2013, 11:42 AM
 
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@highlife: You do know that the usual problem with sex during pregnancy is that the woman is crazy for it but the man refuses, right?
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Old 06-05-2013, 11:49 AM
 
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I guess the short of my rant is, dont take advantage of some poor tool so you can have a kid. When you pick someone give them all the sex and attention you gave the same guys in your 20's. Dont make some guy suffer. I know alot of guys have no self respect so its like shooting baby ducks in a bucket but do the right thing.
Highlife I've already said multiple times that I'm NOT going to have find a guy JUST to make a baby with him.
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Old 06-05-2013, 01:42 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Highlife I've already said multiple times that I'm NOT going to have find a guy JUST to make a baby with him.

Well that the vibe I have been getting when some dumb girl says during a 1st conversation...."Do you want kids?
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Old 06-05-2013, 01:48 PM
 
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Well that the vibe I have been getting when some dumb girl says during a 1st conversation...."Do you want kids?
Nowhere have I said that. I think people really just want to believe whatever they want to believe lol.
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Old 06-05-2013, 01:50 PM
 
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Well that the vibe I have been getting when some dumb girl says during a 1st conversation...."Do you want kids?
Change 'girl' to 'guy' and you have my #1 dating problem when I was in my mid-30s. All the guys wanted kids ASAP, and saw me as the means.
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Old 06-05-2013, 01:53 PM
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Nowhere have I said that. I think people really just want to believe whatever they want to believe lol.

No I was saying that when a women ask that question so early on, it gives off the vibe that she is looking for a guy so she can have a baby not connect with him and build a relationship
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Old 06-05-2013, 01:56 PM
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Change 'girl' to 'guy' and you have my #1 dating problem when I was in my mid-30s. All the guys wanted kids ASAP, and saw me as the means.

Yeah that was dumb , not focusing on getting to know you and building a relationship just seeing you as someone to have a baby with
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Old 06-05-2013, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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You are just, like, making stuff up. I did not have sex with "bad boys through out my 20s". I was in serious, monogamous relationships with good guys who just happened to not work out. You act like I deserve to not settle down with someone because my prior relationships did not work out, which really makes no sense to me.
The vast majority of the women I know didn't have sex with 'the bad boys' throughout their 20s either.

It's just something guys tell themselves to make themselves feel better that women didn't 'choose' them because of some personality flaw.
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