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I wanna know who these older guys are that hit on young women are.... I, for the life of me, couldn't imagine being in my late 50's or older and trying to mack on young women in there 20's.... I'm embarrassed as hell just thinking about how gross it is.... I think maybe some dude that was say 55 sorta getting a little jiggy with a woman in her 40's isn't soooo bad... but same guy with some woman in her 20's or early 30's is just gross I really mean, I'm not trying to pander to the older broads here... just saying.......
I've learned to recognize the stages with older men. They test the waters with something generic. If you're friendly, they proceed with not so subtle subtexts. "I'm lonely." If you don't shut it down by this point, it can get really icky. And when I was single, I broke down and flat out lied saying I was with someone already.
I wanna know who these older guys are that hit on young women are.... I, for the life of me, couldn't imagine being in my late 50's or older and trying to mack on young women in there 20's.... I'm embarrassed as hell just thinking about how gross it is.... I think maybe some dude that was say 55 sorta getting a little jiggy with a woman in her 40's isn't soooo bad... but same guy with some woman in her 20's or early 30's is just gross I really mean, I'm not trying to pander to the older broads here... just saying.......
Probably same guys who think they are all that when they aren't. Most of the time these are the creepiest men who think they are God's gift to women.
I've learned to recognize the stages with older men. They test the waters with something generic. If you're friendly, they proceed with not so subtle subtexts. "I'm lonely." If you don't shut it down by this point, it can get really icky. And when I was single, I broke down and flat out lied saying I was with someone already.
Sad situation... again, I'm glad I'm not out there......
Directed towards the OP….
It happens more often than one would think…
I work as an Ophthalmic technician at a specialty clinic where most of our patients are elderly or “olderâ€
I am 39 and I have men as old as 75 hitting on me while I am conducting testing and examinations…
Comments such as “Hold on girl, is that your real hair color, that black?†Your gorgeous my ex wife use to have hair like this, if I was younger I would swoop you upâ€
Or one patient that is 57 telling me after I stated I would not have to dilate him to take his eye scans “What no dilation?†“Then what excuse will I have for feeling my way around†And motioned his hands towards my breasts..I tried to think he meant in general until he stated, “That is inappropriate for right now†And chuckled…uggg….
I could go on and on…
There is or was this Ultrasound tech who works 2 offices down.. He is 51..
He inquired about me to the front desk gals and asked them if I was single than when they told him I was asked if I could meet him outside real quick to chat?
Really?
True story but there's a guy in town who hits on all the women. He's probably in his 60's or so since he served in Vietnam. Anyway he asked my dad if I was single because he wanted to take me out. My dad told him I'm not interested. Not to mention this is a guy who has been married three times.
older women arent immune to this- maybe its different- ive had many older ladies thru the years,,,be quite suggestive,,,even grab my arms-butt,,whisper in my ear--- i laughed most of them off,,,and thought,,if this older lady gets a cheap thrill,,from putting her arm around me,,, then so what...but i do think its different,,,at no time did i feel threatened..
older women arent immune to this- maybe its different- ive had many older ladies thru the years,,,be quite suggestive,,,even grab my arms-butt,,whisper in my ear--- i laughed most of them off,,,and thought,,if this older lady gets a cheap thrill,,from putting her arm around me,,, then so what...but i do think its different,,,at no time did i feel threatened..
That reminds me of the times much older women than me (20+ years) think it's all right to hug or kiss me on the cheek without my permission. If I did that to a girl way younger than me without her permission i'd be in so much trouble. Such a double standard.
So do you women get guys much older and close to your father's age flirting or asking you out in person?
yes, and it is not cute. Especially those married ones, eeewww, just plain disgusting.
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If you don't shut it down by this point, it can get really icky. And when I was single, I broke down and flat out lied saying I was with someone already.
Especially those married ones, eeewww, just plain disgusting.
