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Old 07-14-2013, 05:24 PM
 
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Again, he just needs to be a man about this and brush off it for the nonsense that it is. Normally I'm happy to lambaste women for their lousy behavior but all she really owes him is an apology and a blowjob. (And maybe a filet for dinner...)

If he could roll with it, he could say, "Well, that just makes back-door action easier, so let's get to it."

Seriously. Bigger is not always better, and for most women, that is one time when it's not.
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Old 07-14-2013, 05:27 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Whew!!!

Man...... making fun of a man's penis in front of his friends...

That's pretty bad, right up there with shooting his dog.....

Hopefully he's the kind of guy that can take short pecker jokes, otherwise... IDK......

Best of luck to you.
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Old 07-15-2013, 04:09 PM
 
Location: NYC
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You should have followed that up with, "but I've only been with John Holmes before my fiance."
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Old 07-16-2013, 08:16 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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I don't know may not be any coming back from this one. I am sure she was sincere in her apology, but he was definitely embarrassed, AND he will always have in the back of his mind if he wil be pleasing her or any other woman sexually. Sorry that is a hard thing to get over. I don't care how old a person is, man or woman if they believe they are not pleasing their partner sexually that is a hurtful feeling.
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Old 07-16-2013, 08:23 AM
 
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I don't know may not be any coming back from this one. I am sure she was sincere in her apology, but he was definitely embarrassed, AND he will always have in the back of his mind if he wil be pleasing her or any other woman sexually. Sorry that is a hard thing to get over. I don't care how old a person is, man or woman if they believe they are not pleasing their partner sexually that is a hurtful feeling.
Why would he suddenly think he was not pleasing her? She agreed to marry him, and she said their sex life was great for both of them. That's what I don't understand.
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Old 07-16-2013, 08:33 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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Why would he suddenly think he was not pleasing her? She agreed to marry him, and she said their sex life was great for both of them. That's what I don't understand.

It's a matter of trust. He may be thinking she is only saying that to be nice (which a lot of people do in relationships do when it comes to sex) I'm sure she really does enjoy having sex with him, but put yourself in his position, I could also see why he doesn't believe her. If you love someone you never want to feel as if you aren't good enough, and the fact that she not only said it, but said it to someone else in front of others, can really mess up your mind. To me this is no different than someone saying "yes the sex with my partner is good, but this person was better" I think most people would be devastated to hear that, and it could really ruin the relationship.
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Old 07-16-2013, 09:32 AM
 
Location: NYC
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you are pretty much f***ed

granted I probably would've said

"yeah it's so small, sex with her is like throwing half a hotdog into a large mailbox"

so i think you're lucky that your now EX-fiance doesn't have a rapier-like wit
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Old 07-16-2013, 09:37 AM
 
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I don't know what the big deal is. Wish I had a dollar for every time I have heard a guy joke about the size of his own ding dong or guys who joke about the size of other guys ding dongs.
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Old 07-16-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I don't know what the big deal is. Wish I had a dollar for every time I have heard a guy joke about the size of his own ding dong or guys who joke about the size of other guys ding dongs.
a joke is just that, a joke.


would you make a my penis is really really small joke seriously? would you be ok with legitimately confessing? of course not

a joke is a whole nother thing though.
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Old 07-16-2013, 10:02 AM
 
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Just apologize and compliment him on his love making. Or just find someone who is even smaller and sleep with him. Then he won't be your smallest.
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