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I never really understood what was the incentive for women having casual sex/one night stands anyway
A. Your probably not going to enjoy it, much less orgasm due to alot of different factors: He has no idea what he's doing, is selfish and only cares about himself getting off(which is common during these encounters, I can admit this from experience). This is ESPECIALLY True in younger men
B. The likelyhood of getting an std is much higher from men to women then women to men
C. The whole chance at getting pregnant thing.
I mean forget the social stigma, All these things considered what is really the point? I've benefited from this but now looking at it from the females point of view what is she really gaining here? When certain women say they're not down for casual sex I can't really blame them to be honest.
Besides if you're not bf and gf yet, why you have to provide that information?
You don't whether your number is -5 or 5000 that other person can judge you all they want and make a assumption about you as person but the person man or woman do not need to divulge that information early on if they don't want to.
I never really understood what was the incentive for women having casual sex/one night stands anyway
A. Your probably not going to enjoy it, much less orgasm due to alot of different factors: He has no idea what he's doing, is selfish and only cares about himself getting off(which is common during these encounters, I can admit this from experience). This is ESPECIALLY True in younger men
B. The likelyhood of getting an std is much higher from men to women then women to men
C. The whole chance at getting pregnant thing.
I mean forget the social stigma, All these things considered what is really the point? I've benefited from this but now looking at it from the females point of view what is she really gaining here? When certain women say they're not down for casual sex I can't really blame them to be honest.
Hence why I've only had 4 relationships and my current bf will be my 5th when he's ready. I don't think 4 (going towards 5th guy) and all of them being relationships only is too bad for a 24 year-old.
I never really understood what was the incentive for women having casual sex/one night stands anyway
A. Your probably not going to enjoy it, much less orgasm due to alot of different factors: He has no idea what he's doing, is selfish and only cares about himself getting off(which is common during these encounters, I can admit this from experience). This is ESPECIALLY True in younger men
B. The likelyhood of getting an std is much higher from men to women then women to men
C. The whole chance at getting pregnant thing.
And this can hold true with a bf, LTR or husband. What's your point again?
And this can hold true with a bf, LTR or husband. What's your point again?
Wouldn't this only hold true for women that pick lousy lovers as long term mates, or are you implying that sex for a woman is hit and miss...more of a random occurrence rather than being with the right partner?
Last edited by dejaentendu19; 08-27-2013 at 10:32 PM..
Why would an adult randomly ask about numbers on a date? You're not obligated to answer that question. Unless there are strange behaviors the person is showing or some hints you're noticing then it's when you can probably question something about him/her. Other than that, they probably make it obviously base on the way they care themselves and all their talk. They give it fast giving even saying it.
Have to wonder what woman would even be comforting answering a man's ''How many have you slept with'' question on the first couple of dates. It's one thing if both are comforting sharing personal information but to ask just like that, out of the blues when the conversation about the past and relationship hasn't even been brought up???
Im not sure why youre assuming im talking about a couple being on a date, and asking each other about their sexual past. I never ask my dates or GFs these types of questions, even though I can usually tell by observing womans behaviour.
Wouldn't this only hold true for women that pick lousy lovers as long term mates, or are you implying that sex for a woman is hit and miss...more of a random occurrence rather than being with the right partner?
How is a person going to know without test driving? And don't say kissing or dancing, because those are bull**** ways of predicting future performance in bed.
Wouldn't this only hold true for women that pick lousy lovers as long term mates, or are you implying that sex for a woman is hit and miss...more of a random occurrence rather than being with the right partner?
Normally, you don't pick lousy lovers, men become lousy lovers. As with most other aspects that become relationship issues in the beginning everyone is on their best behavior, putting in %110 effort, pleasing the other. As time goes we become complacent and lazy. Same for romance and sex. I've known of men using Viagra in the beginning to appear to be a stud, then when she is hooked, he quits taking it and becomes mr. droopy petered out again.
So if you don't have sex with them a few times how will you know if they are going to be lousy selfish lovers. If you do in no time, your a s l u t.
And the likelihood of getting an STD or pregnant is still possible with a bf or LTR.
I just don't get why anyone would think a woman couldn't enjoy some strange. Its new, different and exciting as opposed to the same ol' chit. I mean, men do, don't they?
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