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Sure it does... the ones who fear this stuff DON'T have causal sex at all--with either the muscular guy or the scrawny guy. The ones that don't fear this stuff DO have casual sex--and since they don't fear it, they go for whatever man they like.
Lots of women choose not to have casual sex and it has NOTHING to do with fear.
Lots of women choose not to have casual sex and it has NOTHING to do with fear.
Well, of course... In my original post about it, I also brought up caring about one's reputation (women are judged more harshly than men for it--women become sluts where men are studs) and I didn't bring up religion (which is another driving factor... morals. But I think both men and women don't have casual sex for moral reasons and I was trying to think of "Women only" reasons). I just repeated the "fear" because that's all that was brought up again... he said it didn't make sense that if women feared casual sex they would have it with strong men. I was saying the women who DO fear the physical aspects of it don't have casual sex.
What is the ratio? 2-1, 3-1, ??? If women don't go to bars, where do they go?
Not everyone goes to bars and clubs. I was never a barfly kind of person. Sure, I've been to bars, but I don't like them.
I used to go out with friends... we'd do all kinds of things. I had one friend and her boyfriend who were really into rock climbing so I went to a gym with them and did the rock climbing thing. I also used to go to the movies a lot... was a regular movie junky for every new one that came out. I also volunteered time with the university to help on archeological digs. Late I got involved in scuba diving and did that just about every other weekend (still into it, but have less time for it now). I also used to spend evenings watching Doctor Who and other British shows.
Granted, I didn't meet very many (if any) single men doing these things. Probably part of my problem why I couldn't find anyone for so many years. And it probably contributes to my problems now as I am still the same. I go for hikes in the day, scuba diving trips, and volunteer with a local group. I am not out at bars on a Friday night, I am inside with a bowl of popcorn and watching Vikings, or Pawn Stars or something.
My point is, there is a certain type of person who likes parties and bars--and a certain type of person who thinks these things are sheer torture (I fall into the later group). To meet more women (and a different kind of woman), try some different things other than bars.
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If they were coming to my house, I would know about it. Besides, how many women knit anymore?
So you're saying you can't hook up?
I know of three women who knit. Two of my friends and the wife of one of my friends. I almost considered taking it up myself as something to do while watching TV and such. It's kind of made a comeback from the days where it was thought of as a grandma hobby.
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