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Old 03-08-2014, 10:19 PM
 
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I have some. Want me to put it on you?

Do you think it would make me look cute?
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Old 03-08-2014, 10:23 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Do you think it would make me look cute?
Probably. Lol
And a little flamboyant.
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Old 03-08-2014, 10:25 PM
 
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Ummm men only want one main thing. So by asking them out it will feed their egos and most likely give them the wrong idea. Besides, we all want someone with guts
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Old 03-08-2014, 11:41 PM
 
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Ummm men only want one main thing. So by asking them out it will feed their egos and most likely give them the wrong idea. Besides, we all want someone with guts

I would never think that if a woman asked me out; the date would be just a date and if I thought anything else the date would also be an audition I would have to pass before anything else happens. I just wouldn't have any expectations there.
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Old 03-08-2014, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Ummm men only want one main thing. So by asking them out it will feed their egos and most likely give them the wrong idea. Besides, we all want someone with guts

Not all guys just want sex, though. That's the sad part.
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Old 03-09-2014, 09:06 AM
 
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doubtful. I've gone on dates with women and I wasn't interested in sleeping with them. They were attractive. I also take my female friends on dates. Sex is too much of an hassle, I have better things to do.
What do you mean by hassle?
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Old 03-09-2014, 10:44 AM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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Q. Why don't women ask men out?

A. Because we don't want to.
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Old 03-09-2014, 01:49 PM
 
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I don't ask Men out or speak to them first. It would then be expected I would be assertive in general throughout all aspects of a relationship and that would drive me insane. You smile, make eye contact and give someone ample opportunity to make the second move, the first being "the message". What I need is someone brilliant, really smart, and successful enough to have few dollars and have made decent choices. Apparently that was an impossibility after college, where I should have married one of the many guys who were insane about me.

I was never one of those women who settled for anything just to have a body in the bed, a free lunch, or anything else. Without a real connection I'd rather not have any relationships, so I'm basically a recluse. I'm convinced most Men want the most physically attractive, whatever that is to them, female they can afford to maintain. It's about fulfilling an agenda in their lives, they aren't looking for love or "spiritual" fulfillment, they want lots of action and beer.

90% of all Men and Women want something or someone outside their range. I'm probably no different. There is one thing in life I couldn't compromise, sleeping with someone just to get needs met. I'd rather be abstinent and have been for many years now. I'm a good example of someone who has decent looks and is fit, but is a train wreck on the inside. 55 and no kids if anyone is interested.
So why didn't you date guys in college?
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Old 03-11-2014, 07:08 PM
 
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Ummm men only want one main thing. So by asking them out it will feed their egos and most likely give them the wrong idea. Besides, we all want someone with guts
If you feel that way, why even try to date men in the first place?
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Old 03-12-2014, 12:20 PM
 
Location: O4W
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What happened to equal rights?
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