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Agree.
I wonder if he is living in a non-western country.
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Originally Posted by NilaJones
Women ask men out all the time. Most relationships are initiated by women, in US culture.
If it's not happening to you, either you miss their intent or you seem unappealling to them, in some way that is probably not to do with looks or money.
Commenting on a guy's shirt, asking him a question, or whatever is not an approach.
Maybe not always, but it can of course be an approach. She's starting a conversation, and if both parties are amenable to it, that conversation can lead to something more. How are you supposed to ask someone out if you don't talk to them first?
Maybe not always, but it can of course be an approach. She's starting a conversation, and if both parties are amenable to it, that conversation can lead to something more. How are you supposed to ask someone out if you don't talk to them first?
I guess the only thing that qualifies as an approach is walking up to a guy and saying, "Hi. Would you like to date and or have sex with me?"
Hmmm… Maybe this is why a lot of guys aren't that successful on here. If you actually TALK to people - that might lead to more than just asking out total strangers.
Commenting on a guy's shirt, asking him a question, or whatever is not an approach.
I talk to old ladies behind me at the cash register too. Is that an approach?
I talk to guys in the gym to ask for a spot. Then we would just talk about other random stuff. Is that an approach?
Jeez using the female definition of an approach....I guess I am approaching both genders at least 10 times a day.
Excuse you?
I asked tons of guys out. From highschool, outerstaters, online guys, my son's father, friends friend, but you are right this isn't totally recent.I gave my # out first.
I endured the same crap you guys do.The nervousness, the what if's, was it me, etc.
So don't give me crap oh you just talk to people.No I asked guys out. And you know what? I had dates in the past because I asked them out.
So get off your duff and try it. You may meet a cool chick.
Commenting on a guy's shirt, asking him a question, or whatever is not an approach.
I talk to old ladies behind me at the cash register too. Is that an approach?
I talk to guys in the gym to ask for a spot. Then we would just talk about other random stuff. Is that an approach?
Jeez using the female definition of an approach....I guess I am approaching both genders at least 10 times a day.
that never happens to me and I can't remember the last time it did, I believe a lot of guys can say the same thing, that not only do most girls never ask guys out, but they never say hi or start a conversation first, never do anything to break the ice
that never happens to me and I can't remember the last time it did, I believe a lot of guys can say the same thing, that not only do most girls never ask guys out, but they never say hi or start a conversation first, never do anything to break the ice
Your victim/martyr status isn't going to get you anywhere in life, just sayin'.
I asked tons of guys out. From highschool, outerstaters, online guys, my son's father, friends friend, but you are right this isn't totally recent.I gave my # out first.
I endured the same crap you guys do.The nervousness, the what if's, was it me, etc.
So don't give me crap oh you just talk to people.No I asked guys out. And you know what? I had dates in the past because I asked them out.
So get off your duff and try it. You may meet a cool chick.
Aw, good for you! (hug)
Now maybe I'll try that in the future.
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