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Old 04-03-2014, 02:19 PM
 
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Turn it around... he knows she interested in him... she approached him. How does she know he's interested in her if he doesn't ask for her number. Up to that point, he's done NOTHING to show the least bit of interest up to that point.
He doesn't know she is interested in him.

So everytime a girl is friendly to me, I assume she is interested in me? lol the quote below is what happens.


You get people who think every time a girl is friendly, they are interested.




unless the girl actually asks a guy out, she could just be friendly to everyone.
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Old 04-03-2014, 03:00 PM
 
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He doesn't know she is interested in him.

So everytime a girl is friendly to me, I assume she is interested in me? lol the quote below is what happens.


You get people who think every time a girl is friendly, they are interested.




unless the girl actually asks a guy out, she could just be friendly to everyone.
Okay, there is a BIG difference between someone asking you to borrow a pencil, asking for change, or asking you which floor on the elevator and actually breaking the ice and having a 10-20 minute conversation with someone complete with smiling, flirting, etc.

Sounds like we are talking about two different things.

I can tell you from a woman's point of view, even if a man is only vaguely interested in you he will give a number and such (if single). I am not interested in a wishy-washy man who may or may not be just waiting for the next best thing to come along. I am interested in a man who is attracted enough to me to see that I am worth a little discomfort of asking for that number because I went though all the discomfort of initiating things in the first place. I made it easier for him because now he doesn't have to cold approach. If he can't make that itty-bitty investment--he's pretty much telling me I am not worth it. And like Liberty said, most men will ask if they are interested.
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Old 04-03-2014, 03:42 PM
 
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Okay, there is a BIG difference between someone asking you to borrow a pencil, asking for change, or asking you which floor on the elevator and actually breaking the ice and having a 10-20 minute conversation with someone complete with smiling, flirting, etc.

Sounds like we are talking about two different things.

I can tell you from a woman's point of view, even if a man is only vaguely interested in you he will give a number and such (if single). I am not interested in a wishy-washy man who may or may not be just waiting for the next best thing to come along. I am interested in a man who is attracted enough to me to see that I am worth a little discomfort of asking for that number because I went though all the discomfort of initiating things in the first place. I made it easier for him because now he doesn't have to cold approach. If he can't make that itty-bitty investment--he's pretty much telling me I am not worth it. And like Liberty said, most men will ask if they are interested.

So what? She could be smiling to be friendly.

Just because a girl is friendly doesn't mean she wants to date you lol.


At work everyone is smiling. All the ladies and half who are married are smiling and talking to you. Does that mean they want to divorce and date you? No. They are just being friendly.

I crack jokes all the time with a coworker who is married. Does that mean she wants to date?


I mean lol right here.
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Old 04-03-2014, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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It is a very simple question.
I have been asked out by a woman once. But the majority of women will not even ask men out.
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Old 04-03-2014, 04:37 PM
 
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I have been asked out by a woman once. But the majority of women will not even ask men out.
Same, once in my life. I was speechless.
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Old 04-03-2014, 06:16 PM
 
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I have been asked out by a woman once. But the majority of women will not even ask men out.
the majority of women won't even start a conversation first
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Old 04-03-2014, 08:11 PM
 
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It was so much better in the old days when a Guy would knock a woman in the head and drag her to his cave. Just wouldn't look right a woman doing this

brushrunner
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Old 04-03-2014, 08:13 PM
 
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Truth been asked out many times never botherd me.

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Old 04-03-2014, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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the majority of women won't even start a conversation first
Exactly! They want the man to do everything. However, I asked a beautiful woman out and she said yes on my 4th try.
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Old 04-03-2014, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Exactly! They want the man to do everything. However, I asked a beautiful woman out and she said yes on my 4th try.
I thought you were trying to change your woman hating attitude?
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