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You didn't mention your weight versus height - usually a bad sign...
Do you want kids one day? How soon?
If you do want kids, will you stay at home to raise them, or offload that responsibility to strangers?
What's your race? Do you care about the race of your partner?
How well do you get along with your family? Parents and siblings especially.
Describe your typical weekly workout schedule.
I'm 5"3, 98 lbs. Petite.
I am Caucasian, and generally attracted to the same.
I don't want kids.
I get along with my family a bit but stay my distance from them because they have problems.
I walk often, but if I did sit ups and weight lifting, etc., I'd get major abs so I don't do much beyond stretching and walking/hiking.
This might be a long shot - but what city did Weird Science take place in? That might be your best bet!
Why are you looking for your male counterpart? Why not just meet people and see if you hit it off?
Yeah right. Guys NEVER approach me at random. They did a lot back in LA, but never here in Canada. And I'm not going to say something random to a guy just because I'm attracted to him. Online dating makes thins a lot easier, because not only can I tell whether he's attractive, but also if he's looking, and if we have anything in common.
My bet is that the OP will be on a forum in ten years: "why cant I find/keep a man ?"
OP, men aren't made out of grocery lists. If you aren't model material, just throw out your criteria now. This mentality that you 'deserve' a man that fits your requirements will basically be your dating pitfall your entire life.
You should learn to get to know people as they are, instead of how you want them to be. I have a feeling my post will be scanned and passed over quickly.
There is a difference in seeking an educated, fit man, vs your 'mate criteria' you listed.
I got to know a man as he is, and guess what, he spends 15 hours a week watching football but won't for the life of him accompany me to a gallery to admire some great art. He also tried to cheat on me every chance he got, and expressed to his friends how much he hates the prospect of staying with a girl for more than two years. Meanwhile my moving to another country and paying ridiculous amount of international tuition for him. Oh, and he does not even try to match, nor does he shave his salt and pepper beard often--when he would be so much more attractive if he did. And thus, I vow to pick the next guy much more gingerly.
My bet is that the OP will be on a forum in ten years: "why cant I find/keep a man ?"
OP, men aren't made out of grocery lists. If you aren't model material, just throw out your criteria now. This mentality that you 'deserve' a man that fits your requirements will basically be your dating pitfall your entire life.
You should learn to get to know people as they are, instead of how you want them to be. I have a feeling my post will be scanned and passed over quickly.
There is a difference in seeking an educated, fit man, vs your 'mate criteria' you listed.
He's educated, fit, but has pig breath (literally smelling like the dead pig he just ate), and plans to ogle some young meat slabs at the strip club with his pals later tonight, and would be angry if I had a problem with that? No thanks.
A straight man with money & polish you require will be under attack of 22 y.o. females well into his 50s. To resist temptations he must have low libido (is that OK?), low testosterone, potency issues, or he must work too much and have no time for leisure travel etc..
Men are attracted to looks (and multitude of women), you want him to step on his maleness and become a monk just for you. Women are naturally attracted to education, travel, clothes and the rest of euphemisms for you know what. Thus, that poor guy will be the only one making sacrifices in this relationship. What's in it for him? Or you think you have some magic things waiting for him?
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