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I'm 22, attractive, will have a university degree by 23, and can live anywhere in the US; I'm not tied to any particular location (can travel to live near Mr. Right). I am affectionate, and dedicated given the man fits what I'm looking for.
You didn't mention your weight versus height - usually a bad sign...
Do you want kids one day? How soon?
If you do want kids, will you stay at home to raise them, or offload that responsibility to strangers?
What's your race? Do you care about the race of your partner?
How well do you get along with your family? Parents and siblings especially.
Describe your typical weekly workout schedule.
I'd like to live somewhere where my chances of finding a man fitting the following characteristics is higher than average:
-clean shaven -dresses well, at least tries to match -is educated -does not follow any religion -likes socialism and thinks taxation is necessary to a properly functioning country; supports the Affordable Care Act and knows it's the same as Obamacare -wants a monogamous, long-term relationship -would never go to a strip club, cheat, hire a sugar baby etc. -enjoys art galleries, travelling
-is vegetarian
-doesn't like sports so much
I suppose I'm attracted to more metrosexual types.
The exact opposite of a guy like the following:
-has a huge, unkempt beard
-is fat from spending so much time indoors playing video games, eating lots of meat, and giving no thought to what constitutes a healthy diet. likely to get heart disease.
-rowdy and undivertable attention when sports come on, namely football.
-is open about his sleaziness. has posters of bikini clad girls on his wall or computer desktop.
-has strong opinions about things he doesn't know about. posts angry, rude comments on Youtube which lack logic.
-despises vegetarians, makes fun of vegans
-despises liberals...
-has a Confederate flag on the back of his truck
-watches porn for at least an hour a day, would love to hire a camgirl if he could
-or, he's rich and has a sugar baby/mistress behind his wife's back...discretion is very important to him, to protect his reputation as a career/family man
-or, he is hipster-esque, tries to look cool in instagram shots, wears funny glasses, and only dates.
-despises police and people with money and power
You will be able to get most of what you want in a spouse/partner, but not all. The problem with such a specific list is that you cut out a large part of the population. If you do find someone that fits your profile, they may be in a relationship, married, or you don't fit their list. you also might find the perfect guy on paper and not connect with him.
I am not telling you to settle, but maybe be open to more men. I think you have figured out your deal breakers, maybe that is the list you use. I have friends of both sexes who never married and will never marry because they have a really specific list from college. They are in their late 30's to mid 40's and are feeling desperate. Some of them have never even had a long term SO.
Could you be happy with a clean cut, liberal, college educated guy who happens to eat meat and occasionally watches sports? That is a more generic "list" and gives you more possibilities.
I'd like to live somewhere where my chances of finding a man fitting the following characteristics is higher than average:
-clean shaven
-dresses well, at least tries to match
-is educated
-does not follow any religion
-likes socialism and thinks taxation is necessary to a properly functioning country; supports the Affordable Care Act and knows it's the same as Obamacare
-wants a monogamous, long-term relationship
-would never go to a strip club, cheat, hire a sugar baby etc.
-enjoys art galleries, travelling
-is vegetarian
-doesn't like sports so much
I suppose I'm attracted to more metrosexual types.
The exact opposite of a guy like the following:
-has a huge, unkempt beard
-is fat from spending so much time indoors playing video games, eating lots of meat, and giving no thought to what constitutes a healthy diet. likely to get heart disease.
-rowdy and undivertable attention when sports come on, namely football.
-is open about his sleaziness. has posters of bikini clad girls on his wall or computer desktop.
-has strong opinions about things he doesn't know about. posts angry, rude comments on Youtube which lack logic.
-despises vegetarians, makes fun of vegans
-despises liberals...
-has a Confederate flag on the back of his truck
-watches porn for at least an hour a day, would love to hire a camgirl if he could
-or, he's rich and has a sugar baby/mistress behind his wife's back...discretion is very important to him, to protect his reputation as a career/family man
-or, he is hipster-esque, tries to look cool in instagram shots, wears funny glasses, and only dates.
-despises police and people with money and power
Several major cities, mostly on the coasts would satisfy your requirements in spades. The bolded you might have to compromise on.
I know lots of guys who fit that profile pretty closely, at least when they were younger. The highest concentration of people I know like that is probably in Los Angeles.
Your greatest problem (as usual) will be finding someone who looks like you want who fits those requirements.
I'd like to live somewhere where my chances of finding a man fitting the following characteristics is higher than average:
-clean shaven
-dresses well, at least tries to match
-is educated
-does not follow any religion
-likes socialism and thinks taxation is necessary to a properly functioning country; supports the Affordable Care Act and knows it's the same as Obamacare
-wants a monogamous, long-term relationship
-would never go to a strip club, cheat, hire a sugar baby etc.
-enjoys art galleries, travelling
-is vegetarian
-doesn't like sports so much
I suppose I'm attracted to more metrosexual types.
The exact opposite of a guy like the following:
-has a huge, unkempt beard
-is fat from spending so much time indoors playing video games, eating lots of meat, and giving no thought to what constitutes a healthy diet. likely to get heart disease.
-rowdy and undivertable attention when sports come on, namely football.
-is open about his sleaziness. has posters of bikini clad girls on his wall or computer desktop.
-has strong opinions about things he doesn't know about. posts angry, rude comments on Youtube which lack logic.
-despises vegetarians, makes fun of vegans
-despises liberals...
-has a Confederate flag on the back of his truck
-watches porn for at least an hour a day, would love to hire a camgirl if he could
-or, he's rich and has a sugar baby/mistress behind his wife's back...discretion is very important to him, to protect his reputation as a career/family man
-or, he is hipster-esque, tries to look cool in instagram shots, wears funny glasses, and only dates.
-despises police and people with money and power
If you cannot count down your list of "must haves" using the fingers on one hand, then you really need to wait until someone invents a BF/GF robot that you can custom order and program to be perfect for you in every way. That goes double if your list includes silly,trivial things like "must be a vegetarian" and "must be clean shaven."
I'd like to live somewhere where my chances of finding a man fitting the following characteristics is higher than average:
-clean shaven
-dresses well, at least tries to match
-is educated
-does not follow any religion
-likes socialism and thinks taxation is necessary to a properly functioning country; supports the Affordable Care Act and knows it's the same as Obamacare
-wants a monogamous, long-term relationship
-would never go to a strip club, cheat, hire a sugar baby etc.
-enjoys art galleries, travelling
-is vegetarian
-doesn't like sports so much
I suppose I'm attracted to more metrosexual types.
The exact opposite of a guy like the following:
-has a huge, unkempt beard
-is fat from spending so much time indoors playing video games, eating lots of meat, and giving no thought to what constitutes a healthy diet. likely to get heart disease.
-rowdy and undivertable attention when sports come on, namely football.
-is open about his sleaziness. has posters of bikini clad girls on his wall or computer desktop.
-has strong opinions about things he doesn't know about. posts angry, rude comments on Youtube which lack logic.
-despises vegetarians, makes fun of vegans
-despises liberals...
-has a Confederate flag on the back of his truck
-watches porn for at least an hour a day, would love to hire a camgirl if he could
-or, he's rich and has a sugar baby/mistress behind his wife's back...discretion is very important to him, to protect his reputation as a career/family man
-or, he is hipster-esque, tries to look cool in instagram shots, wears funny glasses, and only dates.
-despises police and people with money and power
I know a guy who fits almost all of these criteria and more - he plays the guitar and the piano, goes to the gym, and knows how to clean a bathroom. The only thing is that he is a republican.
I don't think he is that rare. But he probably has a list as long as yours - and look is a an implicit requirement. So it is not where you live, but what you can do to actually land one of these men.
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