3 dates no sex = time to cut her off? (couple, romantic, interested)
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But, the OP stated: "Three dates and no sex, should I dump her? At least she paid for some of the dates".
Would you like your daughter to date this guy?
I assume we're talking about a grown woman who doesn't need her mom's opinion or intervention in her sex life. I think he's being hasty, and I think the idea that he's cutting anything off (the gravy train of one free dinner?) is pretty silly.
I assume we're talking about a grown woman who doesn't need her mom's opinion or intervention in her sex life. I think he's being hasty, and I think the idea that he's cutting anything off (the gravy train of one free dinner?) is pretty silly.
I think grown women and young women should have the same expectations of men. However, I can see how both men and women lower expectations as they get older.
This is me: If I truly enjoy the company of a woman I don't count dates or dollars regarding sex. And I will date her again if I truly like her.
If I feel she is not into me then I stop dating her. But, this has nothing to do with intercourse or number of dates. I will not date a woman that is not into me.
I don't get what's with these "rules" I see so much around here. In real life I've never heard guys say something like "3 dates and no sex she's out." Just can't recall a single time I've heard that. I'm not saying it hasn't happend, but I just can't recall it.
There seems to be all kinds of "rules" nowadays... I wonder if the PUA nonsense is part of the reason??
Silly me, I always thought you just had some dates, hung out together, had a good time and if things progressed that way then you had sex.....
I don't get what's with these "rules" I see so much around here. In real life I've never heard guys say something like "3 dates and no sex she's out." Just can't recall a single time I've heard that. I'm not saying it hasn't happend, but I just can't recall it.
There seems to be all kinds of "rules" nowadays... I wonder if the PUA nonsense is part of the reason??
Silly me, I always thought you just had some dates, hung out together, had a good time and if things progressed that way then you had sex.....
I don't think I ever really kept track. It just happened when it did. Sometimes, much more than three dates, sometimes...much...less...
I don't get what's with these "rules" I see so much around here. In real life I've never heard guys say something like "3 dates and no sex she's out." Just can't recall a single time I've heard that. I'm not saying it hasn't happend, but I just can't recall it.
There seems to be all kinds of "rules" nowadays... I wonder if the PUA nonsense is part of the reason??
Silly me, I always thought you just had some dates, hung out together, had a good time and if things progressed that way then you had sex.....
Exactly she will move on. No guy deserves sex. Dating and sharing the bill, sure.Developing a mutual respect for each other is key.
Op she made out with you, she wants you but sex is a big thing to some women.
If you really can't wait you aren't ready for a relationship. You just want to hump and dump. Women can see this.
Bingo.
I'm all for good sex and lots of it in a relationship. But when did this common expectation of sex by the 3rd date begin?
I'm all for good sex and lots of it in a relationship. But when did this common expectation of sex by the 3rd date begin?
I'd say it takes two to tango! If this expectation of sex by some men is working, then some women are participating. Not sure which came first. Doesn't really matter. Its a good thing, though, if someone figures out really early on that he/she isn't going to be a good match.
It's imbedded in the male brain by the time you are 5 yo. I believe Moses started it
I think the desire was there since Moses, the expectation is a newer thing.....
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